Cheating question

red_philosopher · 2019-08-06T20:02:05+00:00

I'm going to go on a limb here and tell you to drop this fucking bluepill nonsense. The question is quite simple, and the answer is very telling.

Are you in a committed exclusive relationship? Yes or no? No bullshit here.

If not, then why is it even a question? Go fuck around and have a good time.

If yes, you made a commitment and you should do your best to uphold that agreement (no cheating) without any malfeasance on your part. Why? Because you gave your word that you would stay committed. And a man that has no integrity has no frame.

Options?

You can dump her for no reason. You can talk to her about what you want to do, and if it doesn't work your way, you can still dump her. You can even unilaterally make the decision that you don't want to be monogamous anymore and punt the ball to her to see what she does.

But lying to her and violating your word for a lay? You'll compromise your integrity for some pussy? Fuck man.

Kobinks · 2019-08-06T18:37:24+00:00

Doesn't really matter what bullshit you tell them, they usually don't care

owtaa · 2019-08-06T18:58:39+00:00

Unless you're gf is prepped for non-monogamy, there's going to be drama. Why are you in an LTR if you don't want monogamy? Too scared to leave?

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-08-06T18:40:44+00:00

are they friends of your gf

30dirtyfingers · 2019-08-07T07:36:27+00:00

Dont lie, tell them. Girls are more upset that u lied to them. She would much rather u tell her the truth, that way ur doing something together...lying. Not only is it a bonding experience, but u get to play into the "we shouldnt be doing this" theme and that gets them wet.

now, heres the catch.....she might not be with it and u might lose the pussy, but u gotta be willing to lose the pussy to get the pussy.

Foolishoe · 2019-08-06T19:33:49+00:00

Break up with her you socially lazy piece of shit

californiawaves23 · 2019-08-06T18:45:15+00:00

Be better, cheating does harm to all parties involved.

californiawaves23 · 2019-08-06T20:09:56+00:00

That’s your reasoning? Sounds like the excuse the chicks we all bash here use.

unnaturalcontrol · 2019-08-06T18:41:57+00:00

They ARE going to talk and she IS going to find out.

TheRedPillRipper · 2019-08-06T19:54:15+00:00

Do I lie

There’s two options; you lie or you don’t. Of those two; choose whichever gets you closer to YOUR GOAL. Variety is the spice of life but the GF doesn’t want a stick sister? Lie. GF doesn’t like it but doesn’t want to lose you so will tolerate it? Open relationship it is.

For example when my current was pregnant the sex nose dived. As opposed to making it an issue; I hit up an old plate; banged her out for a few months then dropped her again.

The partner didn’t need to know BUT if I was busted I’d wear it. If you do choose to lie; take self responsibility if you get caught. That’s the only way to learn from the experience if it does go pear shaped.

Godspeed and good luck!

[deleted] · 2019-08-06T19:08:43+00:00

Have you considered that this idea might be bad?

hazleed · 2019-08-06T19:55:42+00:00

You have 2 options: cheat on your gf then break up with her or don’t cheat on your gf and stay with her. It’s your choice.

Title	Cheating question
Author	adool666
Upvotes	2
Comments	26
Date	August 6, 2019 6:25 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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