Cheating; worth it?

sultre · 2016-06-20T18:00:32+00:00

As with most questions on here, it is purely situational.

However, as a general rule, if you are happy in your LTR it is not worth it. It is not worth the temporary rush of dopamine to lose something that is much better. As always, thrill drives people to do things like this, myself included.

Why risk something good? Sure the chances are low and it mightn't mean much. But for me at least and for many others I know, it changed their relationship somewhat. Perhaps in the way of making cheating commonplace in their relationships- a very unhealthy outlook (although widespread) if you want to maintain a good LTR.

trpthroway123 · 2016-06-20T18:34:54+00:00

If you're not happy just cut it off.

I've never had to cheat.

Did the urge happen? Yes. Did opportunities arise? Yes. Did some questionable things happen (drunk make outs, sleepovers, lines of cocaine off bare tits, etc). Hell yes.

But, if you're happy, it's not worth destroying it over a fling. If the new girl is worth it, why stick with the old one?

Not at all uncommon to break up and plate the ex while fucking the new girl too, without having the whole world know what a cheating asshole you are.

nummas · 2016-06-20T21:24:10+00:00

I have cheated. Worth it? Sometimes yes, sometimes no. Situational really. But I realized after cheating that I can't help myself and know I will cheat again given the chance. So I just don't bother with LTR's at all now to avoid any potential drama or guilt.

Equilibriun · 2016-06-20T23:43:54+00:00

I did feel bad. I was BP at the time. She wasn't giving it up, I cheated. Was it worth it? Yes. It's what brought me here. I felt bad for like a minute then got over it.

It helped my game 1000% because then I started pulling married bitches like it was nothing. These females know that if you are the discrete type of guy, they can fuck you and get away with it.

Remember this place is amoral. If you want to cheat cheat. Hell some guides here require it.

I never got caught. I never told the SO either during the break up or after because why? Understand the risk before you go into it. Play it logically for a minute. Does she know your name? In your circle of friends? Can she ruin your life with this info? Do you have leverage on her just in case?

The taken ones I fuck with are taken for a reason. They have things to lose. I don't.

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2016-06-20T18:04:13+00:00

Be a man.

Women cheat behind their partner's back. Don't be a woman.

Be a man and either demote to plate or don't cheat.

fnordsnord · 2016-06-20T19:50:17+00:00

Yes. No. Because it was there.

It's not worth it.

ecosci · 2016-06-20T20:50:54+00:00

Listen, you dont have to cheat but have as many women you can find who will f*ck you at a momoents notice plus if your lady thinks you dont have plenty females lusting after you she will lose the tingles and see you as beta then its gameover,just saying.And you gotta have a double standard women cant have 2 guys its a crowd so dont allow her to have male friends (COCKBLOCKERS) but dont feel bad about having sex with unmarried women its ok even though society says not, its no wonder why women love badboys he slays alot of vagina which turns women on.

trp_ocd · 2016-06-20T20:04:44+00:00

Cheating is a moral juxtaposition.

Only you can define if it is "worth" it.

However, if you're asking everyone if the "feel bad" afterwards, and if "the good feelz outweigh the bad feelz"...

It is to me.

Title	Cheating; worth it?
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Date	June 20, 2016 5:50 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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