Cheating

FereallyRed · 2020-01-16T16:31:48+00:00

You lied to her to continue to get fucked.

That's on your moral compass.

But consider why you felt the need to lie instead of just being upfront with your needs and letting the chips fall where they may. Whose frame does that put you in?

theUnBannableHulk · 2020-01-16T14:52:28+00:00

OP’s girl finally succeeded in making OP get oneitis

Now OP is questioning his behaviour and assuming ALL WOMEN SHARE THE CONCEPTS OF MORALS AS MEN DO

OP going soft

Inb4 OP is dumped as gurl loses attraction

😂

Srs tho OP

You need to read this like a bible

50 Shades of Red -> link in sidebar. Read this until your dumbass understands that women have ZERO MORALS and you are assuming she is a special unicorn who thinks like men and will be hurt and betrayed.

Don’t be a bitch. Sack up and keep your mouth shut, if you wanna pause your plates do so but this shit you’re vomiting here is a recipe for heartbreak, YOUR heart being broken.

We all been there.

She wants you cuz she can’t have you, once she has you she won’t want you.

Musicgoon · 2020-01-16T14:59:34+00:00

Jesus. So basically you come here to ask us how we keep your blue pill lifestyle alive? Wrong forum. You've got oneitis, you lack confidence, you don't have abundance. You have this girl on a pedestal. If she was really perfect for you, your eye wouldn't wander. You fucked up and cheated like a true beta. And you've lived a lie instead of just sacking up and telling this chick that you're not happy or just plain simply don't want to commit to her. Go read the sidebar again.

PrettyBarbiePerson · 2020-01-16T15:26:16+00:00

I usually have my own morals and don’t cheat if I agree to be exclusive and then I don’t feel bad, but you know not everybody thinks ahead

Left-Comment · 2020-02-06T11:58:55+00:00

Someday she will caught something. Not everything, but something. Then things will blow.

You know she will, right OP? Even if you lie and gaslight.

thewetdog_ · 2020-01-16T19:11:25+00:00

You’re a disgrace

CasualPlay3r · 2020-01-16T16:12:52+00:00

you are thinking too much about her than you...

hell man, your whole post is about her and not you, in your head she comes before you and your needs and want...

you are going to crash badly if you continue on that path

you have options here. 1 leave the side pussy and be faithful 2 keep cheating regretfully as you are now 3 keep cheating and actually understand that you are biologically programmed to do that or 4 tell the truth to your girlfriend about the whole thing and assume responsibility of your acts like a man.

you have to understand that people is ruthless when it comes to sex, get soft for a girl and suffer the consequences

remember that women will share a high value man, so if you are worthy enough she will probably accept it

PiperBigBell · 2020-01-16T15:20:09+00:00

Recognize that your guilt is only the subconscious fear of you getting caught and losing her. It's feminine thinking, you fearing the loss of what you think is stability. Women crave stability. We don't. We crave freedom. Recognize that she's just another girl and that as a man you are her superior. It's your god given role

Recognize that telling her what you did can never help you, only hurt you. Recognize that your biological imperative dictates that you slay hoes. Recognize that it is your duty as a man to not be emotional, but take action. Guilt is narcissism and inflated self importance.

It has nothing to do with them, only you. That's guilt. You let go of guilt by accepting your feelings, your history. By not reliving thought energy, as this fuels emotions. To forgive oneself is to change oneself. Your real guilt is not having accepted your sexual nature.

MarkJohnPaul · 2020-01-16T18:18:08+00:00

Girls want to fuck one guy a lot and guys want to fuck a lot of different girls once.

Just biology dude you forgive yourself by accepting what you are as a male.

It is what it is. Cheating is just some bullshit term used to marginalize one person and allow another to be a victim. It doesn’t allow people to accept the true nature of men and women. Women cheat when they find a better option, men cheat because they need to fuck.

Anyway your girl seems like a soldier, so I’d just make it official with yourself in your own mind. Make the commitment to just your girl but yourself.

learning0007 · 2020-01-16T17:35:22+00:00

Why are you asking on the redpill forum

littytitty00 · 2020-01-16T22:57:49+00:00

Hope she cheats on you 💓

freedom1117 · 2020-01-16T15:00:31+00:00

"How do you deal with the guilt of cheating on a really good girl"

You caught feels sort it out and internalise the side bar

Blue_Andre · 2020-01-16T15:31:02+00:00

Dont cheat. Be polygamous (obiously for you, not her). That's honest and better for you and both of them.

IMNihilist · 2020-01-16T18:10:32+00:00

You have two options my guy:

Don't tell her, stop hamstering about it, forget it and due to YOUR moral never do it again.
Tell her and watch your relationship crumble.

I had a similar exp, never told her, it lasted 4 years until we broke up for other reasons.

I suggest the number one. Good luck.

user20180620 · 2020-01-16T16:41:01+00:00

Whatever you do don't tell her about it.

It may seem like The Honorable thing to do, to tell her the truth... But think of it this way. Her state of mine is under your control. You can give her the gift of safety and calm, by never giving her a reason to doubt you and never telling her what you've done. that's a hell of a gift... Doesn't this amazing girl deserve peace of mind?

if you tell her what you've done you'll destroy your peace of mind. You are the one that cheated, your mind deserves to be tortured about it... Her mind does not deserve to be tortured about it

Spin plates, or don't spin plates... But don't tell her about it... She deserves peace of mind at least.

Title	Cheating
Author	Enzo_renn233
Upvotes	0
Comments	27
Date	January 16, 2020 2:43 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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