Cheating...

Musicgoon · 2020-11-01T23:17:57+00:00

I've done it before. It chews away at you internally. A few times I got away with it. Once I got caught. I felt like an asshole. The girls brother had died a few days before she found out. So it was an awful situation.

If it comes to a girl cheating on her man, I don't give a fuck. She's in the wrong. I'll take her up on sex, but I'll never trust her.

BTW, if you want to read some eye opening shit, go to the adultery sub reddit. Most of the cheating is predominantly a female cheating on her male partner. And then they idolize their affair partner, like the dude is her next life partner or soulmate. It's female hamstering and hypergamy at it's strongest.

Edit: If your girl isn't making you happy, demote or next her. Don't get a side piece, spin a soft harem, do this until you find a great fit for you. You gave up some of your power by committing to someone that isn't keeping you satisfied enough to not look elsewhere.

fenixcont · 2020-11-01T23:07:45+00:00

What rules? Make your own rules, whatever you want to do, whatever you want to risk.

Personally i would never cheat. If she doesnt satisfy my needs shes not ltr material for me. Plus i wouldnt want to risk my reputation.

cydestiny · 2020-11-02T00:24:25+00:00

No, I think you get it wrong, the sexual strategy is amoral but never non-moral.

Cheating was never an option, even with plates. Just don't be a dumb dumb and tell the plate all the details of your plate spinning adventures, just state that you are non-exclusive.

But for LTRs, you don't cheat not because it's morally wrong, it's because why are you cheating if you made a choice that she's your LTR? If your brain is telling you that you need to, then what you need to do is not cheat but think about why are you still in the relationship?

If she denies you of anything down the road, are you just going to compromise and find replacement somewhere else? Then what is her purpose in your life?

Morals are to keep the sheep in place, it's a good guideline for the rest of us here in TRP, to detect when thing goes the wrong way, not as rules to follow.

WearWorking · 2020-11-02T00:24:35+00:00

What are your likes and dislikes? That's all it is.

In business, the only person I don't fuck over is my partner. Everyone else is fair game to be scammed. It's a dog eat dog world.

In romance, I'm dead honest. If I want to sleep with other women, I'll tell my girl that, and let her know she can stay while I do it, or leave. Lying to someone I care for doesn't make me feel good, so I don't do it, even if that means I lose something I like. You can certainly make the argument it's just about pros and cons and weighing them.. OK, but lying to someone I care about will damage my self-esteem and integrity, and nothing can possibly outweigh that.

ThrowawayYAYAY2002 · 2020-11-02T10:04:12+00:00

Sounds like you're not ready to be in a relationship, OP.

If your girl doesn't swallow, so what? Face, back, tits, belly, inside her... all options (except inside her) will cause you way less grief than cheating would.

If she gives me a lot of lip, then it's time to make her submit.

Justifying cheating is a very hard thing to do.

TrenWarrior · 2020-11-01T23:49:18+00:00

Brother Michael,

Their are no ”good girls” recall... every woman has the capacity to cheat.. It just takes her current guy to be slacking on some piller of the performance paradigm for her to justify fucking someone else.

In short if the opportunity is there take it.. take care of business and move on... remember what they (the feminine ) would do if the tables were turned and you were the one leaving for the weekend.

whiteindia · 2020-11-02T02:36:32+00:00

If you’re gonna cheat there’s no reason to be in a relationship

If you don’t compromise on anything when getting into a relationship (which you shouldn’t) you should have no reason to cheat.

Title	Cheating...
Author	MichaelHunnids
Upvotes	5
Comments	13
Date	November 1, 2020 10:53 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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