Chink in her armor?

drrtyfrrnr · 2014-06-14T09:39:58+00:00

I think you are misreading the situation. It is not a chink in her armor, it's a ploy to misdirect you.

The only time you can trust a woman's words is when she's highly emotional, like when she's crying, desperate, angry etc. Any other time, look to her actions to guide you.

And what are her actions telling you? That she doesn't love and respect you.

Your situation looks like a typical bored SAHM looking for some excitement and all you can do is try your hardest to go back to your beta provider role.

Take a break for a while, do some exciting things, and then make the decision.

If getting you back was as easy as sending a text, she will never respect you. I think you're misreading the situation because you desperately want it to blow over and are concerned that it won't.

Hold your frame. Don't be moved by her emotional pleas just yet.

caxica · 2014-06-14T14:19:55+00:00

Def up the dread game. Also realize there is way more to fitness than "lifting"

unassuming_aussie · 2014-06-14T07:20:00+00:00

Sounds like time to up your 'dread' game.

You know that you could walk away relatively easily in comparison to her. Make sure that she knows it as well.

I had great advice from a Bosnian fellow I worked with years ago. He said "unassuming_aussie, if your wife is always complaining then you need to fuck her hard to shut her up". Nothing like Eastern European men eh.

Since she is sending the texts about so much love, then make her show it. Fuck her hard and make her cum buckets, remind her why she is with you in the first place. This will also have the effect of making you feel more in control and much more masculine.

Good luck mate!

DanG3 · 2014-06-14T09:58:12+00:00

Well, what she is "saying" ("I don't want to talk to you" and in other ways) is STFU! You guys talk and text way too much. She wants you to be a leader in this. 'Come back to YOUR bed and just fuck me.' (The 'for the kids' thing was just her trying to save face.) (BTW, NEVER leave YOUR bed or house. It's your throne. If she wants to leave, fine.) You're trying to solve this with "communication and negotiation." STOP! If she gives you the chance again, JUST FUCK HER - HARD! and then STFU!

I've been following your posts. Other than a collection of fundamental Blue Pill based behavioral issues, and your own midife crisis issues, I can't find you saying exactly what is wrong with your marriage. What IS wrong? Do you both simply know each other too well? Are you bored with each other?

Next ... I like my adult beverages (too), but ... drinking and driving a marriage don't mix. I'm pretty sure that drinking is in this mix. Correct?

I'll +1 the Dread Game. BUT, it's not going to work if the Captain has DLVed himself such that W is having respect and/or resentment issues. OP has mentioned screwups on both their parts in the past. What were they, and have they been resolved - and how?

While you have read about Red Pill, it's not who you are - yet. But RP will save your marriage. We are here to help.

That is all I have for now.

Jasmene2012 · 2014-06-14T11:07:04+00:00

She is stubborn and what are you? easy? Where is your frame when you give up before even trying.

K3R3G3 · 2014-06-14T16:53:42+00:00

Chink in her armor?

Yes

pleasedontknowme30 · 2014-06-14T05:24:45+00:00

Tldr, please.

Title	Chink in her armor?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	17
Date	June 14, 2014 3:58 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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