Alright so I’m a bit unsure if I’m doing this correctly or not, looking for some tips. But right now I don’t confirm dates at all. I’ll usually hit a girl up ask when they’re available and suggest a place but not the time and usually they’ll have sent me a last text like “sounds good” and that will be the end of the convo.

When the day of the date comes I just wait for them to hit me up, which doesn’t happen sometimes and I think it’s because they had texted me last so they don’t want to seem needy. Should I start making sure I text them last and still not hit them up the day of? Or should I actually start confirming myself?

Also if they don’t confirm with me I usually hit them up like a week later to try and rearrange.