Considering a "permanent monk mode" type of lifestyle. Good plan?

TalkingMonkeys · 2014-11-26T23:18:31+00:00

You're a picky eater and a poor hunter.

You've hit a wall. You starting lying to yourself. Now, you've turned an easy fix into a bad habit.

This reeks of insecurity. You don't need pussy. Yet, you have convinced yourself that it is all you want from women.

Quit chasing and learn how to hunt. You only chase after the prey is wounded. You are, equivalently, sprinting at deer in an open field hoping they will lay down and let you claim their meat. Now, you've fucked up repeatedly and want to blame women. Stop that. Improve yourself. Improve your game.

alpha_n3rd · 2014-11-26T22:43:26+00:00

Don't chase 'em, replace 'em. Problem solved. Respect to BIG.

dazedandconfusedrp · 2014-11-27T09:14:52+00:00

MGTOW.

asd1100 · 2014-11-26T22:10:51+00:00

Chasing after women

please explain what you mean by this.

more fruitful endeavors.

please explain what you mean by this.

best to let that shit happen on its own, right? You know, let someone come along and find me, that type of perception?

yes, love always finds away, now that we have our tampons in place can we be serious about this.

What fish you catch is determined by the quality of the bait, by where you are fishing and what fish you are interested in(filtering out).

How old are you?

What do you want a woman for?

What is your body fat percentage?

Are you happy?

smokingmonkey420 · 2014-11-26T21:08:38+00:00

Essentially, this is what they call MGTOW. It works for some people. Search "MGTOW: Sandman" on YouTube.

SergeantDickhead · 2014-11-27T01:06:53+00:00

I'm doing the same thing man. After poon got easy, it also gets to be too much of my time. When I'm hanging out with friends or women- my focus goes way down and I loose time to do all the cool shit I love doing. It's better for me to not talk with ANYONE when I'm focusing in monk mode, as a helpful person naturally, I always help others instead of myself. It's black and white for me though, as grey areas fuck up my focus and I cannot go to my full attention.

imaterriblelurker · 2014-11-27T12:04:14+00:00

OP, how good looking are you and how good looking are the women you go for? Fatties don't deserve love and if you are going monk because you're ugly then everyone here would be wrong to tell you not to do so.

Ugly fat people should stick with their own.

If you are none of these then you are terrible insecure and you need to get your head out of your ass. No one wants you because you don't want yourself. Quit blaming others for your own shortcomings and get the fuck off the internet. Clean your environment (friends, apartment, work) Do something productive each and everyday. Soon enough you will find yourself in places where hook ups just happen.

Top tip to OP, get some male friends.

Fantastical14 · 2014-11-26T21:00:11+00:00

Monk mode is never a good idea. Spending your entire time focusing on yourself is what you should be doing always. But not focusing on interacting with women is negatively impacting your social skills with them. Don't forget that this a huge part of attracting women.

Real monk mode should focus on all aspects of your life including women. Spend less time and emotional energy on it of course. If you feel that it is draining on you just cut it back a bit.

Title	Considering a "permanent monk mode" type of lifestyle. Good plan?
Author	monkythrowaway
Upvotes	11
Comments	11
Date	November 26, 2014 8:15 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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