Correct my cold approach

chazthundergut · 2018-12-03T04:54:13+00:00

Here's the thing. I don't "cold approach" people who get paid to be friendly to me. Unless they are giving me very obvious choosing signals.

Ironically when you just buy groceries and be friendly without giving or seeking validation from the cute check-out clerk, she is much more likely to flirt with you. And then you can turn to the chick looking at People's magazine behind you and tease her about reading garbage.

Trphello · 2018-12-03T05:17:10+00:00

I work in food service, basically same thing. Unless you're a shitty server, you're always in super friendly mode. For women, they'll flirt or seem receptive just because they're in that zone. Then they tell me how weird or creepy the guy was.

You're approach seemed fine but server IOI's generally aren't all that reliable. Remember, the medium is the message, she refused to give you her number, I'd next. I've seen women I've worked with write their numbers on to-go boxes, napkins, you name it. If they want you, they'll get you.

AmazonAlphaMale · 2018-12-03T03:07:28+00:00

Also can someone tell me how to make the post appear in order. Like it fucked up my format as soon as I posted it

icecruzader · 2018-12-03T09:05:53+00:00

The I might could have been a good place to pivot to something else besides the picture to build comfort before the number close but it was good. Addressing the boyfriend doesn't help if she were willing to go further. Its more of an ingore to pass that shit test in my opinion.

Title	Correct my cold approach
Author	AmazonAlphaMale
Upvotes	3
Comments	13
Date	December 3, 2018 3:05 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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