So, I am starting a new job and am going through training. Met a girl, started off slow and has picked up this week. It has been good so far, there have been signs of interest from both sides. There hasn't been much escalating because it is a professional setting, Im not risking a new job because I want to get my dick wet. So, here's the thing, today felt like I was being bombarded by shit tests. Its about four of us, there's a guy who she always addresses over all of us but other than that there isn't much contact, most of it is with me. She initiates it.
Today I was speaking with another person and she goes off, about how I'm always talking. I say "Well, XYZ I'm sorry but apparently we aren't allowed to talk". We end the conversation laughing about it and decide we wouldn't talk at all. I stayed quiet the entire time and you could hear it in her voice that she knew she fucked up. I felt pissed, I'll admit it but I made sure I didn't make a big deal out of it. I usually sit next to her at lunch but I sat across from her this time and didn't acknowledge her until she spoke to me first. Dread game, I could tell she hated it. Especially how I was quick to start conversations with other girls but not with her. It only made her want to speak to me more. When speaking to another person I kept my focus on them and ignored her completely. Again I showed no signs of anger but she could tell something was "wrong".
She tried to butt into a private conversation and asked what we were talking about so I said gave her a little neg. Laughed about it and left it at that. I'm not really sure whats going on, if she is using me for the attention or if she actually is interested. The thing that I question is that she always seems to acknowledge another guy first while that guy would ask me what I think about something. Other than that there aren't much signs of interest between either of them, she always finds a way to be near me. I'm not going to be anyone's orbiter, so guys any help would be appreciated, Thanks.
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