Last week I banged my first girl of Tinder. I didn't write an FR, but the short version is I came home, socialized with my roommate, went to bed and thought "I could jerk off, but let me see if I can find some girl to fuck instead." Then I did.

As you might expect her SMV isn't very high, but I wouldn't mind trying to plate her to basically build confidence/help with an abundance mentality.

How do you set expectations for your plates? E.g. we're here to fuck, maybe hang out for a bit, and go our separate ways. I'm trying to break out of a dating mentality; for better or worse that's been my MO for most of my life.

For example, she texted me asking if I was free to hang out tomorrow afternoon after she goes to brunch. We haven't seen each other since our first hook up. I don't want to be hanging out at the park or some shit (wasting my valuable time.) Then again I'd be down to meet up at my place and fuck. I'm inclined to not be available until later in the evening.

Advice or good links appreciated.

Brief summary of who I am: 24, 5'9", about 190 right now, (going to the gym and eating better to cut that down) Live in a nice apartment in a major US city; high paying job.