Dad cheating on Mom

5-methoxy-NN-DMT · 2018-08-23T08:37:37+00:00

throwaway account for obvious reasons

Not really that obvious considering these accounts shouldn’t be linked to your personal identity anyway hah..

And really you shouldn’t be asking us this, you know your home life and family better than we do. Make a judgement call, I would talk to him about it first if it were me. He might get mad at you, wondering why you were even looking through his messages anyway

pcps4 · 2018-08-23T10:56:39+00:00

it's not your business..

your mother is not fulfilling his needs in the bedroom so he is looking elsewhere.. - totally normal...

Rian_Stone · 2018-08-23T12:47:35+00:00

Here's whats going to happen. you're going to get mad, mom is going to get mad, you're going to promise yourself you'll never do those mean things dad did to her, you're going to be a better man.

And you're going to sabotage yourself for about a decade, then maybe learn some game, or knock up a single mom or some captain saveaho scenario.

After a while, you'll talk to dad and hear the other side, realize you probably would have done the same thing in this situation. you'll also notice that mom got angry and complained, but she stuck around, you ignore her words and watch her actions... she didn't seem to care as much as you did.

then you and your dad will have a beer, be sort of close, but not super close, since you pushed him away for so long you are too proud to, or just built up too much life to have the extra space for him.

this shit is so common Rollo links an article every time people bring it up

My advice, you worry about your relationship with your parents, you let them worry about their relationship with each other. Or self sabotage for a decade, your call

And as for the moralfags in this thread, they don't really care, they just know they are supposed to, because the women in their life have told them to since they were a boy. Good luck having them understand that though.

TrolsMan · 2018-08-23T08:19:51+00:00

Not the right question for this sub.

TrenGod37 · 2018-08-23T10:43:52+00:00

Everyone saying this is the wrong sub but the only rule to this sub is that you’re asking for advice or clarification. And that you are.

If it would me I’d probably ignore it or just talk to him about it. Don’t go tell your sibs. But knowing me id probably ignore it. Bc I always cheat so who am I to judge.

So it comes down to your call if you don’t care that much ignore it. If it’s something they really is bothering or eating at you. Bring it up to him in a controlled cool manner. “Look dad. I need to talk to you. I saw something..”

dr_warlock · 2018-08-23T11:32:33+00:00

Dude you come to trp and wonder why your dad would do it and are thinking about interveneing? Come on man. Shes your mom but to him she's just some woman he's fucking. Get your head out your ass. He's a man that wants a variety of baby makers.

Bedtimeshine · 2018-08-23T13:08:27+00:00

You confront him to his face like a man. If it was me...Knowing my dad it would have gotten physical and I would have welcomed it. Send yourself some screen shots and tell him he has til the end of the day to tell your mom or you will.

theglassisbroken2 · 2018-08-23T09:26:58+00:00

This isnt TRP related.

Davidfosford · 2018-08-23T10:11:32+00:00

r/relationships

WhiteGhosts · 2018-08-23T10:57:58+00:00

Bring it up with him. If he doesnt stop, tell your mum about it

Title	Dad cheating on Mom
Author	venom1234
Upvotes	4
Comments	29
Date	August 23, 2018 8:05 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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