Okay it has been boggling my mind for a while now. It might sound stupid but hear me out.

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I feel like majority of guys seem so boring. Everyone plays so safe, looking like a gray mass(flashy outfits included, too tryhard). There is no element of danger.

Rarely i see guys who look dangerous and it intrigues me, what makes them who they are? Is it the attractiveness? Is it tattoos?

So my question is how to appear more dangerous, interesting? I have read that assertiveness helps?