I'll keep this question brief.
Fiance left me a year ago, start lifting, putting time into myself, succeeding at my job (student) in a hypercompetitive STEM field, got my confidence back, started gaming women.
9/10 aquaintence is interested, become friends with benefits. She starts putting lots of effort into making me happy, buys me food, cooks for me, cleans my apartment, sex constantly. I make her my girlfriend. Gaming and plate spinning take up a lot of time and energy that I need to study.
Recently chastised her over an inconvenience she created at a bar. Not a big deal, went without sex for a night as a slap on the wrist.
She's up all night, drunk, very upset, texts me several times, I'm sleeping and don't see them. See her the next day, she's sobered up and rational Im thinking.
She proceeds to buy me a full steak dinner, home cooked, then stays up all night and cleans my apartment. We fuck before bed and she sucks me off as a wake up call for class. She says she'll do anything I want her to, that she's sorry for this small mistake and it won't happen again.
I feel guilty. Redpill is about being a leader for the women in our lives, but this level of loyalty and service makes me feel like she's too attracted to me.
I'm looking for any thoughts, similar experiences, or advice on how to view this. Am I unfairly stressing out this person, or am I playing my cards right?
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