Context: Talking dirty to a girl that has been with me for a few months now. She sent me a pic of her legs/cat and I said I wanted to play with her pussy.

She replies with "Maybe you can play with me if you improve your behavior"

I reply with "Maybe?" and she says "It depends on your behavior"

After that I went radio silent and did not respond to any other messages.

Analysis: She is attempting to use sex as a way to change/model my behavior. It could be a simple shit test, or she is really trying to draw a line in the sand.

Is this done on purpose and what is the correct response now?