Did i do right ?

RedPillIsTruth2 · 2018-01-26T17:11:50+00:00

she want to get a nice expensive meal and for u to pay for it

in other words, ghost this stupid whore

Manducor · 2018-01-26T18:23:15+00:00

/u/RedPillIsTruth2 - Hard pass approach

/u/Herdsengineers - Careful screening approach

/u/900_year_old_vampire - Reframe approach

The first is the safest option, however in the event that a chance at fucking her existed, and she isn't trying to make you an orbiter, you'll likely lose said chance with this approach since women don't handle rejection well.

The second involves a more nuanced exchange which works great if you have a discerning eye and some experience with women.

The last is the most ballsy with heavily implied sexual context and requires great frame control if actually carried out. The best option in my opinion for removing any doubt as to where her interest lies.

fnordsnord · 2018-01-26T21:56:24+00:00

I would go with, "Sure, were are you treating me?"

If she actually offers to feed you, go, isolate, and escalate. If you get the cheek or the duck, soft next and you got free food.

Herdsengineers · 2018-01-26T17:34:46+00:00

Nothing wrong with focusing on you. Abundance, dude. There will always be more chicks. If you want to focus on you right, then do it. You don't owe her anything, even if she hadn't done the not my type friendzoning thing.

Now, that said, as a man in control of his own life, if you also decided to see her, that would be fine. A response like "you buying? ;-)" would be fine.

Btw, it's common that when you pull back, girls will come back and chase. Think of it like this - women are like cats. If you chase, they run. If you chill, be cool, and ignore them while their around, they jump up in your lap and snuggle in. Just remember, they also like play with their prey once they've caught it, so be careful!

900_year_old_vampire · 2018-01-26T17:16:16+00:00

why would you take someone you arent even having sex with out to dinner? or anywhere, for that matter? if anything, invite her over to chill at your place and cook somethin for fun. then fuck her for fun. then, and only then, has she maybe earned a dinner date

red13blue4 · 2018-01-27T00:31:47+00:00

Ask her what she's cooking.

MattyAnon · 2018-01-26T18:07:31+00:00

Did i do right ? I feel i just need to be in self improvement mode and prioritize other things ans expect anything .

Meh... do what you want.

The danger with girls who change their mind like this is that she wants commitment rather than hot sex.

But sure.. go along with it.... just don't pay.

Icanus · 2018-01-26T18:44:45+00:00

I'm sick of these pathetic low quality posts and I'm leaving this sub. Stop being a loser.

Title	Did i do right ?
Author	learning2livelife
Upvotes	6
Comments	12
Date	January 26, 2018 5:08 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7t5y1n/did_i_do_right/
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