Quick and sweet. I don’t like typing my life away on the internet.

Recently went through breakup from a 1 year relationship. (Reason:Got caught cheating 2x) She eventually went back to talking to her ex or whatever. I did continue to hit her up and fucked 2 more times, before the energy was just weird. (More than likely seeing another man) and I decided to opt out of continuing down that path.

I recently (4-5 weeks ago.) hit up a old fling that I never bedded. It was always and on and off fiasco and she was in a committed relationship at the time but still flirted. (Red Flag 1) So recently I have been talking to her over text and phone due to Quarantine. Every other day just about if not every night. I would always sexually escalate when needed and did NOT take the friend approach.

However, after talking to this girl I noticed some red flags that just didn’t sit well with me. Now I know I’m still in relationship mode, literally weeks off a breakup. So my mindset hasn’t fully sat in that I’m single. But she was telling me how she spent the night at her best friends house (Male) and how her ex used to be pissed and concerned about him talking to her. I know from previous conditioning that a woman will ALWAYS tell 1/10th of the truth. So I assume this is the man she is fucking/fucked after her ex.

Now the newest development is that she occasionally tells me how her ex ‘stalks’ her. Following her home from work, showing up to her house at night and just sitting outside parked etc. NEXT LEVEL Beta behavior. Even screenshotted MAD texts from him blowing her up wanting to get back together with her and what not. She says she doesn’t respond, but as RP we know better than to believe that non sense. I personally think she demoted him to orbiter while she fucks her “best friend”.

I eventually soft nexted after we were on the phone and she said she was going to grab something to eat. I asked “you calling back later?” To which she replied “maybe, maybe not” and I used all of my findings to conclude that she’s fishing for attention while making her exit plan to her ex once she feels the opportunity is right.

Did I handle this situation correctly? Peace.