Did I handle this right?

FereallyRed · 2019-10-24T02:35:31+00:00

No such thing as "wrong".

I think you're being a jealous insecure mateguarding bitch, but you can set whatever boundaries are good for you.

What are you concerned about?

randomnumbers36281 · 2019-10-24T02:34:03+00:00

Can't decide need pictures

failed_singingcareer · 2019-10-24T03:25:05+00:00

Wtf. yea beta mate guarding buddy. overprotective asf. imagine how she perceived you when you said she'll be going alone.

what you don't understand is that by not giving a fuck, it will in turn make her find you more attractive/higher SMV IF you do it right. (exude abundance mentality and don't become jealous.)

Snowboard18 · 2019-10-24T02:35:09+00:00

Mate guarding in general is unattractive, and boundaries should be set without words, if she does something you don’t like withdrawl attention

vreshbaby · 2019-10-24T05:10:59+00:00

Dont like my woman wearing revealing clothes either. Just say "youre not wearing those revealing clothes when youre with me" and move on with the conversation. No need to give an ultimatum that directly, if you already plan to give one, make it subtle.

IcyBear7 · 2019-10-24T05:31:30+00:00

for me, my boundaries with relationships are as equals. As in whatever my gf wants to be able to get away with, im equally allowed as well. She wants to install tinder, im allowed to install tinder. She's allowed to wear something revealing, i'm allowed to wear something that'll get girl's attention.

[deleted] · 2019-10-24T03:47:46+00:00

You did the right thing

Title	Did I handle this right?
Author	Lightways434
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	October 24, 2019 2:30 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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