So, I met up with this girl back in August from OKC. Got ice cream, walked around, walked to her my place. Gave her a massage and tried to escalate like 5 times by rubbing her ass and down her crack. She resisted every time. She got up to check the time and I told her to get back on the bed. She got on top of me and told me I had 10 minutes. We started making out and lead to sex. However it was just meh sex. Basically I wasn't really into it much by then and would go limp every now and then. She was really tight too which was good except I couldn't get it in while I was limp. Eventually I just finished on her chest.

Now keep in mind this girl lives upstate from me but comes down on the weekend for work. So after minimal contact and have not seeing her for basically a month 1/2, 2 weeks ago she asked if she could crash at my place around 11pm. She was coming from a wedding after party. I told her to come by and she did. We made out and I tried to escalate and she wouldn't even let me touch her breast, let alone her pussy. Eventually I said fuck it and we went to bed because I had work early in the morning. I let her stay at my place till I came back, which wasn't long. Slid in bed with her again, tried to escalate, fingered her but she wouldn't let me fuck. She said she was on her period but she wasn't even using a pad or tampon. So I told her she had to go. After a bit of her bitching, I walked her down stairs and she left.

Last night I told her we should hang out. She was at an after party and told me she would come over around 12. She gets here, hops in bed and we cuddle for a minute. I escalate, take her bra off, sucking on her tits while rubbing her pussy through her leggings. Once again won't let my hand in her pants though. So after awhile of kissing and trying few more times to get into her pants while she is rubbing her clit, I could tell she came. Suddenly she was no longer in the mood, excuse after excuse of not wanting to fuck. So I straight up told her she needed to go. Eventually she offered me $20 to stay and would leave when I go to work in the morning. Said okay, since I only had to be up in 4 hours anyways. Got up, got dressed and she begs me to let her stay until I come back. Told her no and she had 5 minutes to get ready. She looked kinda dumb-faced. Like how could he? We walk downstairs, she walks off to her car and I go to mine and that was it.

I felt disrespected. How are you going to ask to crash at my place and not put out, not once but twice. Wouldn't even give me a blowjob/handjob.