Do alphas settle down?

beingamannotadayjob · 2020-03-13T11:38:21+00:00

Some do and some don’t.

Each “alpha” has his personal beliefs and some of them decide to settle down.

UEMcGill · 2020-03-13T14:07:29+00:00

Rule zero is paramount.

Don't look it at it as "settling down". If you are alpha, you look at it as part of the mission.

I always wanted kids. I love being a dad. The best way to produce productive, well-adjusted kids is in a nuclear family. They are part of my mission, but not necessarily the focus of the mission.

Make no mistakes, I'm under no delusions about my wife. She could flake tomorrow and I'd have to find a replacement (a few to be exact), but for right now, it's all working. You have to be a strong captain and accept that someday you may have to eject crew for the sake of the mission.

Google the Alpha Provider. That's what Alphas do as opposed to settling down.

pyth0ns · 2020-03-13T12:00:32+00:00

Yes, when it benefits them!

You working 3x jobs to support a hag and a child, that isn't even yours... Does not benefit you! (Outlandish example)

(Funny though... Women view this, as 'alpha' thing to do - yet cheat on that poor dude constantly)

RPOpenUp · 2020-03-13T13:33:24+00:00

There's no answer to this since your definition of alpha is wrong. Alpha is as alpha does. Basically he does whatever the fuck he wants. Does he want to settle down? He settles down. Does he want to keep gaming? He keeps gaming

2020-03-13T14:07:43+00:00

I would say yes they do, when they meet somebody who's younger and wife material when they are in their 40s

RacistMuffin · 2020-03-13T14:40:31+00:00

The thing is there no specific way to be an "alpha male". Being alpha is merely the idea of having a healthy balance of alpha traits and also beta traits. Rolio's belief is that it is better to consist of more alpha traits anyway if you are unsure of how to balance it appropriately. Therefore, the idea isn't that you are an "alpha male", but rather contain certain alpha traits and beta traits that caters to create the maximum amount of attraction towards a female.

Woujo's take is that females have two selves: the conscious and subconscious self.

The conscious self is what the women desires based on what she is socially programmed to like. This is where certain beta traits are necessary to maintain her attraction towards you.. This is where females state certain logical attraction aspects in guys; such as him being nice, caring, whatever the fuck.

The subconscious self in a women makes her desire the archetypal alpha. This is why when females get drunk, they tend to throw away any inhibition and hook up with the guy that is deemed as "alpha". However, once she is more conscious of her decisions and logical. She realizes if the guy is too alpha he isn't suited for long-term commitment and therefore her interests in pursuing him drops.

Take this for example. AMS has a 3 girl rotation, has plenty of ONS and prospects on the line, isn't in a relationship, but he takes the girls on his rotation on fancy dinners. His reasoning is that he doesn't take them to please the women, but rather he takes them for his own enjoyment. For females, they see it as a "beta" trait, but they love it on top of his other alpha qualities that he possesses.

The true idea of redpill is not aiming to become the most alpha. It's being flexible with your ideologies to the point where you are able to confidently attract all(if not most) attractive women which includes the necessity of displaying both alpha and beta traits.

Therefore, to answer your question, it depends. An alpha male can be labeled as a "beta male" in this subreddit without realizing how he has more alpha traits than beta. A beta male can only settle down because he has more beta traits which makes him have the inability to sleep with multiple women; so therefore he settles on one because of security.

Folknust · 2020-03-13T13:01:58+00:00

Of course.

Unlikely_Composer · 2020-03-14T14:16:10+00:00

Alphas do what the fuck they want.

The only thing you need to do to be alpha is to make decisions and accept their consequences. and lift.

2020-03-13T13:43:14+00:00

Warren Beatty settled down at 55 after banging every woman in Hollywood. 👍

pyth0ns · 2020-03-13T11:44:50+00:00

Once you settle down you become a beta. I'm not even trying to be edgy, or exaggerate shit. But when you go from abundance mentality to oneitis...then you're fucking up. Then you're back to the blue pilled shit.

So yeah some alphas do settle down and become betas.

Title	Do alphas settle down?
Author	Ihsanher
Upvotes	8
Comments	14
Date	March 13, 2020 11:34 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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