Do you ever ask plates to explain what went wrong in order to learn from it?

Aarxnw · 2018-10-11T16:13:48+00:00

If you’ve got many plates and you lose one here and there don’t worry about it, girls are irrational and skittish, it’s normal and it just happens, unless you are famous (and even then) you’re gonna have girls who get bored of you, think they’re better than you, or don’t want to ‘be used’.

If you’re struggling to keep plates, asking is not a good way to figure out why. Here are my personal insights:

When you ask a girl what went wrong , one of a few things will happen;

She will act like nothing went wrong and then continue acting off, if you press her hard enough she’ll most likely lie and say she’s talking to someone
She will delete you or ignore you
She will just straight up give you a bullshit reason that’s obvious bullshit

It serves no purpose and you won’t get a good answer, as much as it seems to make sense to ask what went wrong to the person who seems like they could give you a good answer, it’s never a good idea. And she will think less of you, even if you tell her you “don’t care about losing you, I just want to know what I did wrong”. Also, not matter how you phrase it, if she’s a plate, she’ll probably see it as needy.

Move on and evaluate yourself, yourself, you don’t need other people to do it for you :) (except wings, they’re a good tool for seeing things objectively)

boy_named_su · 2018-10-11T17:48:20+00:00

Women don't understand you or even themselves. They believe in fucking astrology and healing magnets for God's sake

There is zero point in asking them what went wrong, because they are incapable of analyzing the situation. Ask questions here with detailed background info

Have you read Sex God Method? Are you built? Are you acting like a bitch?

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2018-10-12T00:36:55+00:00

Don't ask a fish for fishing advice.

BigBallsJamesHunt · 2018-10-11T15:56:41+00:00

You can but most women don't know what they like in men and probably will tell you some generic shit

TonytheNetworker · 2018-10-11T15:35:39+00:00

Personally, I don't care to know whether I fucked up or not. It's just a plate, they're replaceable, and I feel I have good enough self-reflection to catch what I did wrong. Assuming the girl actually answers she could make up some shit as to make you not feel bad.

oytrp · 2018-10-11T17:23:11+00:00

No.

She'll never tell you the real reason anyway.

friendandadvisor · 2018-10-11T22:29:11+00:00

If you text this to her, she will show the text to other women that you want to plate, and they will all think you are a dork.

Title	Do you ever ask plates to explain what went wrong in order to learn from it?
Author	bluefingerblue
Upvotes	1
Comments	19
Date	October 11, 2018 3:31 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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