Do you plan out conversations beforehand?

SimplyFishOil · 2019-04-10T18:39:00+00:00

Depends on my intentions. A new hot girl I wanna talk to? Yeah I'll try and find something to start the conversation (like if her hair is a crazy color, or she's a different nationality, ect) but afterwards I just let it flow. You don't want to plan out a conversation because it'll either not go as you plan, or you force the planned conversation and the conversation doesn't flow at all.

Being socially intelligent is something most girls are attracted to, so you should focus on keeping the conversation flowing and developing a connecting with the girl through it, and it's with the connection that you transition into flirting.

Anyone can tell when you plan out your conversations. It's obvious when there's no flow and no connection

SomeoneBehindThePC · 2019-04-11T03:19:35+00:00

Anytime I fuck up onstage is when I'm thinking about wherr I am in the song, where my fingers are on the strings. It's distracting.

Conversations rarely go as planned. Best to go with the flow.

[deleted] · 2019-04-10T16:41:17+00:00

No. Impromptu all day bayby

willbrown72 · 2019-04-10T16:42:52+00:00

It’s all practice. The more the you practice talking to new people the better you will be at it

rpsheepdog · 2019-04-10T17:16:52+00:00

No, having a broad knowledge set and interesting life experiences usually lets you go with almost anybody's flow.

That being said, if you're talking about conversing with women, a lot of them are pretty shallow and boring to talk to for an actual conversation.

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-04-10T21:43:59+00:00

Plan out the beginning, go with the flow once you're deep in it.

RedPill2018 · 2019-04-11T04:19:00+00:00

What’s helping me is to speak to everyone

If you see someone with a nice shirt, tell them

If the situation permits, strike up a convo

For example, I’d ask the person where they got it— if they look like they thrift, I’d ask them if they thrift

From there on out, I can piggy back off of their responses and gauge their personality to see if I’d like to keep speaking to them

Title	Do you plan out conversations beforehand?
Author	MrSutta
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	April 10, 2019 4:38 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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