Do you text right after hooking up?

Snowboard18 · 2021-04-06T19:15:26+00:00

The one thing to remember about texting is that it cannot increase her interest in you, only decrease it

So if your going out of town and won’t be able to see her then there’s no reason to text

Unless your to the “advanced” level of game we’re you text as much as you can because you truely don’t care if she loses attraction cause you have so many options

Musicgoon · 2021-04-06T19:19:33+00:00

Just send the occasional text. One a day or less is good. If you text all the time you look thirsty.

soltanparham · 2021-04-06T19:37:05+00:00

Let her text first , if she asks why you didn’t text , you say : “ i was busy.” .

kclanton80 · 2021-04-07T11:55:36+00:00

I would shoot her a text about half way through your trip. Shoot the shit for 5 minutes....remind her what day your coming back and set something up for shortly after you return.

"Ok well I will be back Thursday, maybe we can meet up that weekend. (No firm day) " make the plan when you return if you want and if your both free. I don't like the plan dates more than a day or two in advance....

Just some light communication for maintenance. You're just letting her know that you haven't dropped off the face of the Earth. Not trying to build attraction or joke around too much and keeping things short.

You can certainly go radio silent with them if this becomes a plate...but in the beginning give them a little comfort until she is invested a bit more. Heck she might hit you up first....so give her some space and opportunity to do that as well.

Title	Do you text right after hooking up?
Author	Victordobado
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	April 6, 2021 7:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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