Started seeing this girl, everything was going swimmingly.
She would text me every day and constantly. I would adhere to the 3:1 rule.
She had oneitis for me pretty badly and I knew it.
She wanted to be exclusive and I accepted after she gave "the talk" a few times. I did like her and start to develop feelings for her.
Then after this exclusivity for a few months everything was going pretty well. She'd still text me heaps and whatnot. Over time the texting waned. I wouldn't respond as much and she wouldn't start texting as much.
Right now, she never starts to text me, and I only text her for logistics. We're still dating.
Now, when I see her irl, everything is totally fine. Sometimes I call her and we talk for an hour or so and everything is all g. I just don't understand the texting becoming so cold and distant, considering it's what she froths over. I should add though, she responds instantly - just not as warm and emoji ridden as the start of the relationship. Also, generally speaking when I text with something like "let me know" she doesn't respond but she used to say stuff like "ok sure xxxx"
However, then she pulls stuff like "are you actually going to sleep? I want you to talk to me" when I text her goodnight after a string of 2 - 3 worded nothing responses.
This girl has about a million orbiters constantly messaging her and giving her validation left, right and centre. Her insta has thousands of followers etc.
Could it be that she "has" me, so doesn't really want my validation any more? Or is she simply bored of texting me like she used to, and the million orbiters fill her desire to be texted "ur beautiful bb". Should I just pretty much cut all texting contact, and wait for her to initiate?
Or, does she simply not like me as much as she used to, and is talking to other guys whilst keeping me on the hook just in case.
Thoughts?
tl;dr Girl starts off as plate texting constantly with emojis and whatnot, start relationship and after a month or so texting becomes non existent apart from logistics. Everything is totally fine/normal over phone calls/irl
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