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lots of good advice here. remember: "whether you think you can or can't, you're right."
/r/askTRP28/05/15 05:36 PM
1

yup, fortune favors the bold
/r/askTRP25/05/15 12:36 AM
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this seems like bragplaining to me. there really are no issues here and she's just being a woman that wants the secure side of alpha d.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 07:25 PM
1

I wouldn't approach while she's on the clock unless she's putting out very blatant IOIs. in that situation, she has no "out" and it's very easy to come off as a creeper for exactly this reason. you lift there and girls talk, so don't spoil your situation this way. on the train however, start up some small talk. ask to borrow a pen, playfully call her "stranger", etc. this is where you see IOIs. if conversation seems difficult or she wants to cut it short, it will be natural for you to read it as…
/r/askTRP24/05/15 02:50 PM
6

spot on. the male doms there perform redpill actions backed up with bluepill rationalization. they also ban redpillers on sight.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 12:33 PM
9

best answer. also, never tell him it was you who sent it. this is information you do not associate with yourself and you take it to the grave
/r/askTRP20/05/15 09:10 PM
1

finding a new job = avoiding her continue ignoring her = avoiding her like RunawayGrain stated, you're going to have to do a bunch of extra shit to cover your own ass. if she is really that horrible, she will be weeded out of her position eventually. I wouldn't start trying to make her look like the bad guy, because then you're entering her game where she's top dog. (formatting bad due to mobile)
/r/askTRP30/04/15 06:54 PM
0

I classify gas lighting as a personality disorder. I would avoid at all costs.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 01:18 PM
2

Please update formatting and make this the new sticky.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 01:19 PM
5

seems harmless, but this quote actually implies women are the prize (vice success) shy guys never get the prettiest medal sends a better message
/r/askTRP20/04/15 05:32 PM
1

this is the most effective sub-communication part of it and should be the top answer
/r/askTRP07/04/15 01:19 PM
1

how to win over a woman that's playing hard to get? you don't play (meaning you don't buy into her bullshit. you go for what you want or opt out if the bs threshold is too high)
/r/askTRP24/03/15 07:41 PM
1

dwtfywtd do what the fuck you want to do the feedback you get depends more on how invested in the dynamic you become. get into it and enjoy yourself
/r/askTRP20/03/15 05:43 PM
1

one of these studies was on the reddit front page yesterday for every 17 females reproducing, only 1 male was reproducing (approx 8000 years ago)
/r/askTRP20/03/15 05:42 PM
1

your frame is your point of view or reality. when you enter someone else's frame, you're entering their world. you see things the way they see them, allow them to control social interactions, basically giving them the driver's seat in terms of control if you have a strong frame, you tend to let criticisms/shit tests bounce right off of you. this is a means of creating respect, where a weaker man (or woman) will show "chinks" in their armor if they react poorly or negatively. if something so minu…
/r/askTRP19/03/15 10:44 PM
2

you're both right. you can look at it from a micro or macro level. it's a loose term
/r/askTRP19/03/15 10:30 PM
1

ignore him completely. whining to strangers/acquaintances isn't worth a second thought as you get older, you'll give a lot less fucks than you do now (about the small stuff)
/r/askTRP19/03/15 08:26 PM
2

he's right like they say.. if I loan a friend $100 and never see him again, it was worth the money
/r/askTRP19/03/15 07:31 PM
1

doesn't matter what she says, true or not
/r/askTRP19/03/15 07:28 PM
1

you did nothing wrong, so ignore it too many people expect others to be nice for no reason, and would not do the same if the tables were turned this person wanted to look like he was confrontational and afraid of nothing, when in reality he was just being a whiny bitch
/r/askTRP19/03/15 07:24 PM
4

just saw your edit, like bbs said that's kind of a big deal. she's trying to go nuclear I'd keep one foot out the door and not even flirt with the idea of taking her seriously if you have enough options, consider demoting her to plate
/r/askTRP19/03/15 05:08 PM
4

my opinion is to balance these two of the sixteen commandments: IX. Connect with her emotions and XV. Maintain your state control your stoicism is not the issue here
/r/askTRP19/03/15 03:52 PM
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you told us what she said, but not what she did. we can't judge based on this. her words don't matter in the grand scheme of things what have her recent actions been like?
/r/askTRP19/03/15 03:42 PM
1

that's not how I would define it, but your point about trust is interesting. I believe trust can exist as long as you put yourself first and follow your own mission (be the catch) this is one of the reasons you look for a woman with a respectable father figure in her life; as they generally instill values like trust, honor, and integrity
/r/askTRP19/03/15 02:56 PM
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first, make a new reddit account and delete your old one. last thing you want is her snooping around and seeing you all up in the manosphere second, sidebar sidebar sidebar finally, don't push TRP too hard on her. these are changes that happen from the inside out. I recommend reading enough to internalize it until it bleeds out naturally. definitely don't start pushing, as they say "if you have to force it, it's probably shit" a lot of married men make the mistake of moving from one extreme to t…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 10:06 PM
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I normally agree with what you say, but if he starts poking and prodding about this new guy it will make him seem insecure. she will acknowledge that this other guy is threatening to him which is an ultimate fail
/r/askTRP18/03/15 09:46 PM
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you can't control anyone but yourself. part of the LTR game is trust, rewarding, and screening to prevent these situations remember to trust your gut if things start getting amped up (shit tests increase, aloofness, lack of effort). do not get swallowed up by denial, but also do not convince yourself you smell smoke just so you can scream "fire". judge her by her actions, not her words you may want to entertain the thought of dread--not just to light a fire under her ass, but yours as well. your…
/r/askTRP18/03/15 09:44 PM
1

UUUHHH she sounds fucking insane bro
/r/askTRP17/03/15 02:47 PM
1

delete Instagram it's a false measure of social status and a validation tool for women
/r/askTRP16/03/15 03:51 PM
9

this is normal this also happens when you start to get tired
/r/askTRP16/03/15 03:49 PM
1

no quals, but with this he still paints the picture that he takes a high interest in the subject
/r/askTRP15/03/15 11:37 PM
1

no matter what, don't even mention the guy or her relationship status i would go silent on her to see if she ever hits you up again. if she does, get her to tag along with you for coffee or drinks. if not, she wasn't interested. if she has another excuse to not meet up, she's probably staging you for a source of validation
/r/askTRP15/03/15 08:46 PM
2

side bar, brother ALWAYS ASSUME INTEREST and BE SELFISH she digs you, so pull the trigger. since this generation is deep into hookup culture, just tell her you want to hang out sometime. it doesn't need to be some fancy social gathering and don't get caught up in the age thing because you're both young. if anything, you can playfully neg her on her old age
/r/askTRP15/03/15 08:38 PM
1

you're in denial. denial wouldn't be a condition if you knew you were in denial you really like this girl and you wish she would see you as a romantic interest. there's no other reason you would "feel like shit" when she texts you dancing with other dudes she may very well be confiding in you as her friend because she hopes that she can have/trust a male friend. she doesn't know men and women can't be friends, so it's not her fault you obviously have issues with being her friend, otherwise you w…
/r/askTRP15/03/15 08:33 PM
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I'm an analyst by trade, and I'm theorizing the effects of trp "trauma" are directly associated with decreased libido and/or impotence once swallowed, the Disney fairytale becomes the rug that is pulled out from underneath you along with all of the magic you once thought was there. now you realize women are just people, whereas before you felt you could only fantasize from below the pedestal. with that fantasy came excitement. take away the fantasy and what does that leave you with? most of my c…
/r/askTRP15/03/15 08:17 PM
1

bad decisions make great stories. just so happens you probably decide to make good decisions. play to your advantages rather than trying to change your own personality. your friends keep you balanced and most likely vice versa
/r/askTRP12/03/15 09:38 PM
2

you don't need to regain your honor with this group. that is petty validation-seeking behavior if you're truly the BMOG, get new friends
/r/askTRP07/03/15 05:09 PM
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you aren't going to notice your own improvements as well as others will. you ARE making progress by putting yourself out there. it's just tough to notice the subtle strides over long periods of time look at it this way. do you remember all those social cues you ignored when you were ignorant of TRP? odds are you can pick out a few instances where you could've done better. post-TRP we tend to mentally flag key social cues because we now realize some are quite important. this awareness alone is po…
/r/askTRP07/03/15 05:05 PM
1

you don't have a problem here, so don't turn it into one when you have spare time, hit up online dating. don't set aside time for it you say you had 8 tinder lays, but no plates? I had trouble finding any ONS, but plates were obtainable. had better luck at bars, though. online dating is going to become agonizing once subscriptions become the standard across the board. I'd consider banking on game irl over online dating now
/r/askTRP07/03/15 04:59 PM
2

I FEEL like you deserve a man who's better than you wink
/r/askTRP01/03/15 10:13 PM
2

soft next her. when she hits you back, playfully neg her boring personality (not her looks)
/r/askTRP01/03/15 10:11 PM
1

you're looking at this through a woman's POV, and what you seem to be questioning is why is your hypergamy broken. women look for better men to swing to from current relationships male sexual strategy is more about quantity over quality. males can also love multiple females. quality has little to do with it. as you raise your SMV, you can raise your target quality. it still has a range, though. this is the rule, not the exception I suggest you look into male and female sexual strategies more wit…
/r/askTRP01/03/15 10:08 PM
1

for groups behave as if you are speaking loud enough and directly enough for everyone. this means eye contact shifts most meaningfully if you do so as you change ANYTHING change pitch = eye contact moves to next person change idea = moves change speed (periods/commas) = moves just don't switch eye contact rapidly, which is generally less than 2 sec per person. most importantly, take your time
/r/askTRP28/02/15 09:44 PM
1

GFTOW - go fuck ten other women textbook TRP, read the sidebar
/r/askTRP27/02/15 01:53 PM
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it took 6 months for her to tell you this. that should tell you we're not the only ones who view it as a red flag she waited until the relationship was in a comfortable state. now you will be cautious for a while, so don't expect her to open up about much more until it reaches that state again. she knows what she's doing
/r/askTRP26/02/15 05:18 PM
9

cancel lunch date
/r/askTRP26/02/15 03:34 PM
1

don't settle, you are young
/r/askTRP26/02/15 01:21 PM
1

this
/r/askTRP25/02/15 07:46 PM
3

this brad pitt comparison failed
/r/askTRP25/02/15 07:40 PM
1

you idiot things don't "just happen". you're not a woman. you're a man who makes things happen. so do it next time
/r/askTRP25/02/15 03:30 PM
1

polarizing.. good!
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:25 PM
1

spot on never apologize
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:20 PM
1

she should be downgraded to FWB or plate. this girl is thriving on his validation. you can't fix that. only she can at her own will, but she is obviously not ready to detach at the very least, break it off before traveling
/r/askTRP24/02/15 03:30 PM
1

it's worse than seeking advice and/or comfort from her SO. the context was there
/r/askTRP14/02/15 02:45 AM
9

enjoy the honeymoon phase don't forget how she became attracted to you
/r/askTRP13/02/15 06:25 PM
1

if it was me, I'd only ditch the girl I was interested in without an explanation unless she explicitly asks you. you're going to a friendly event and you invited 2 sluts and an asshole
/r/askTRP13/02/15 03:27 PM
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overall you did well if you consider the disappointment you were dealing with. you didn't hold a solid frame, but you caught your girl in a lie she's being argumentative rather than apologetic, so I suggest a next. a hard next to be specific, but I know how people are in this forum when it comes to hard nexting a LTR. you see, you are now her antagonist and she has a long-term goal to prove that you're the bad guy there are other girls out there that won't behave this poorly toward you. find the…
/r/askTRP13/02/15 02:17 PM
1

be selfish
/r/askTRP13/02/15 01:53 PM
4

when you realize you're waiting for her to tell you the plans for the night AND that she hadn't verified the date--soft next. that means nc unless she gets back to you if she's planning to flake and gets that annoying ass text from you, how does she feel? "it was a good decision to flake on this needy bitch" if she's planning to flake and doesn't even hear from you, how does she feel? "I thought we were going to hang out. what's he doing? I should talk to him" her exact thoughts don't matter, bu…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 09:13 PM
1

what is notable here is that she's displaying emotional instability and is trying to fix it on her own. to me this says she is giving up on her rock. you were her rock without much doubt until you explicitly stated you were not ready for marriage. I'm sure she would have normally come to you for help, but for this reason she doesn't think you should be helping her anymore you're not giving her what she wants. I get it that you found a good one, but don't be afraid to throw it back once it starts…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 07:51 PM
2

there was a thread in TRP that covered this. a (tinder) woman would rather date an asshole than a nice guy. rejection from an asshole is shallow. rejection from a nice guy is much deeper because it says her personality sucks be an asshole
/r/askTRP09/02/15 05:49 PM
1

you might not have the frame to deal this out without seeming vengeful. you better have funny/cocky mode set at 130% before you even open your mouth with this response at age 20 seeking advice
/r/askTRP09/02/15 05:30 PM
2

make her turn you on. tell her to take her clothes off. tell her HOW you want her to take her clothes off. don't rush through the moment, either. enjoy it. she will get turned on just by this kind of stuff and by seeing what it does for you
/r/askTRP09/02/15 05:25 PM
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she might want to, but she can't respect you. you're the guy who is always there (displaying no other options). no matter the temperature of the relationship, she will know that you displayed no spine since you let her come back to you. your word holds little weight to her next her and don't look back. it's time to start building yourself
/r/askTRP08/02/15 09:03 PM
2

cringe adopt this new mindset: "I don't care if she has a boyfriend or is seeing someone. it's not my job to adjust her morals or remind her of her poor choices as she thinks about fucking around on someone (if it's even a bf)"
/r/askTRP28/01/15 08:19 AM
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distance yourself a little bit to think about what you did. she's getting to you. reading through the 16 commandments of poon (again) will help in this case
/r/askTRP23/01/15 08:06 PM
1

vague question to cover most bases, leave to clear your head and/or vent with buddies away from the source of the issue. approach again with a level head
/r/askTRP23/01/15 05:25 PM
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you can be honest about your intentions. that's not a shit test to ask what you're doing; because it's not within the social norm, and it's a legitimate question. some ammo: "yes I have a gf" "I just like girls" "she understands" "it's complicated" "I like to have fun" "shhh, it's a secret" I would just advise you playfully change the subject after revealing a sliver of truth each time she brings it up
/r/askTRP22/01/15 01:29 PM
1

doggy and missionary are both positions that are top pleasure level for men try other positions that are better for her. make her ride you forward and reverse, wheelbarrow, put her legs on your shoulders, etc. these help to last longer
/r/askTRP21/01/15 06:22 PM
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usually if it seems too easy, there's a catch the last easy one I had was a post-wall single mother text ratio was about 1:6... she was crazy and had no shame
/r/askTRP21/01/15 02:44 PM
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huh? you live with her???? attraction fading...
/r/askTRP20/01/15 10:49 PM
1

male therapist, noted
/r/askTRP20/01/15 10:46 PM
4

been through it it's complete bullshit it's marketing geared towards women who thrive on drama, love to talk about feelings, and seek social validation think about all the shit you read in the TRP sidebar and compare it to the process of relationship therapy. in a nutshell attraction is #1, and talking through problems destroys all of that this is assuming that you are not having issues about how overly alpha you are--because if that's the case, the domestication would probably work just fine
/r/askTRP18/01/15 07:11 PM
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it's a good thing it sounds like frugality. do you want to LTR a woman with shitty spending habits?
/r/askTRP18/01/15 07:05 PM
2

4 hours of talking over a dinner date scenario is NOT recommended for a first date unless you're looking for a platonic male friend next time set up coffee and bang. if she's not showing IOIs, then second date movie at yours and bang dinner dates are ok if you're in an LTR or genuinely not interested in escalating and finally, be looking for date #3 with girl #3. that should be priority #2 after yourself
/r/askTRP18/01/15 06:41 PM
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one of my most stable pillars in life were proven faulty when my wife asked for a divorce. I had to find out why she wanted to leave. we had a family, jobs, no abuse issues, light financial problems, a few friends, etc turns out she left because she wasn't happy that I rolled over for her, and I was generally depressed from the brow beating over the years
/r/askTRP12/01/15 01:13 PM
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find a friend to help or hire a personal trainer
/r/askTRP12/01/15 01:08 PM
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there's only one way to find out
/r/askTRP11/01/15 07:58 AM
4

ignore, laugh, or smirk it doesn't matter because it's an emotion and not indifference
/r/askTRP10/01/15 11:58 PM
2

awesome job. you did the right thing. this is what it feels like to stand up for yourself and filter crazy bitches out of your life next her, soft or hard. soft if you still want to fuck her, hard if she puts off too much drama for it to be worth it
/r/askTRP10/01/15 09:23 PM
2

I'm not yoked, but I have good definition use your age and your height to your advantage you're chubby as fuck, so you need cardio. badly. you said cardio is boring. do you like music? before you run, get a new playlist each time. if you don't like that, try finding a gym that shows movies while you run the treadmill. trails are best, tracks are good, and treadmills are okay. if you stick to it, running will eventually feel good and you will want to do it as far as lifting I am no help. I just g…
/r/askTRP10/01/15 09:19 PM
1

Long messaging sessions actually decrease the chance of that actually happening. true as fuck the attraction is initial and pic-based. you have to strike sluts while the iron is hot and have some luck with schedules
/r/askTRP09/01/15 07:17 PM
3

So a few plates have been to my house, most comment that they dont like how my apartment looks. It is small, and not extremely clean but usually im very busy/productive person. Its not dirty, its just not organized. Whats the answer to this question/response? Usually i just advise that i wasnt prepared for any guests. clean better and own it. "it's awesome because it's mine" Other topics, some girls seem to hate my past issues that i have a ex girlfriend (which i have a child by) . Whats the bes…
/r/askTRP04/01/15 03:38 PM
1

I'm agnostic I don't know what will happen, but I view life as the reward and not the afterlife. why can't you look forward to raising children properly to continue your legacy?
/r/askTRP04/01/15 03:32 PM
0

just like any other answer here: lift the better you naturally look, the better potential social standing you can achieve sure, there are strategies like preselection and making ambiguous comments... but, that shits all quite ineffective if you're scrawny or obese
/r/askTRP04/01/15 03:30 PM
5

been there you got her she doesn't want to open up because she doesn't want to fuck up the relationship just keep doing you, bro
/r/askTRP04/01/15 03:18 PM
1

lift
/r/askTRP03/01/15 02:49 AM
1

constructive criticism is what it's all about
/r/askTRP02/01/15 05:03 AM
-1

threaten to beat them up on the playground after school
/r/askTRP01/01/15 06:21 PM
5

right message, wrong medium don't condone talking problems out
/r/askTRP01/01/15 06:18 PM
1

I think you're right about the passive aggressive response. responding as per normal with a holiday greeting would have been the right answer as far as disappointment vs. anger, explicitly expressing disappointment will get you through more situations without appearing butthurt it's also a great A&A response
/r/askTRP01/01/15 05:12 PM
1

respond late with "happy new year" also adopt "I'm not mad, I'm just disappointed"
/r/askTRP01/01/15 07:57 AM
1

tell you what if you have a spare night soon and you're feeling like a bang, invite her over for a movie. give her max 24h notice if you can't get the bang while she's over, next her
/r/askTRP01/01/15 06:52 AM
0

damn, she stopped you?? everything points to orbiter aside from the bang. maybe she got railed by Chad shortly after meeting you soft next, stop wining and dining this bitch
/r/askTRP31/12/14 10:21 PM
1

so you're trying to break out of the friend zone? be polarizing and make her see you in a sexual way. if you get hit with LJBF, let her down easy
/r/askTRP31/12/14 10:19 PM
1

never ignore your gut
/r/askTRP31/12/14 10:15 PM
2

pay attention to how you emote you are likely coming off as butthurt if those are the comments you're getting, which is unattractive as fuck
/r/askTRP31/12/14 03:10 PM
1

you need to get motivated about increasing your SMV. monk mode for a month or two for heavy improvement and then get the fuck out there
/r/askTRP31/12/14 03:08 PM
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option 1 however judging on the amount of thought you put into writing about her, you will trip up somewhere a plate shouldn't require this much investment/strategy, so treat this girl as your practice run while keeping an eye out for another remember: if you only have one, it isn't a plate I'd say best of luck, but fuck luck. earn it
/r/askTRP31/12/14 03:05 PM
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tl;dr semi-soft next your mistake: jumping into exclusivity before identifying a large red flag be straightforward with her when you're in person. tell her you made a mistake and you're taking exclusivity off the table (for now or indefinitely). I'd even explain to her that her ex is the red flag you saw. don't babble about feelings at all this allows you to see how serious she is about it. breach on a soft next and let her put in the work to keep herself spinning for days/weeks after a while yo…
/r/askTRP31/12/14 02:56 PM
1

love is the feeling you get when you don't think you can do any better she's not in love, brother
/r/askTRP31/12/14 02:47 PM
2

you will get MUCH better advice from red pill women
/r/askTRP31/12/14 02:45 PM
1

your overall answer is to read The Sex God Method top to bottom DEVI - dominance, emotion, variety, immersion you're talking specifically about domination here. the author shares a story about women he fucks that get off on pure dominant behavior. if I remember right; the girl in his story was in physical pain (even bleeding), but it didn't matter to her because she loved the dominance and still got off if you're looking for a strong CONNECTION, you will balance all aspects of DEVI. you can stil…
/r/askTRP31/12/14 02:39 PM
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no, they aren't ALL like that, but in TRP we speak in absolutes because we judge on the rules--NOT the exceptions
/r/askTRP31/12/14 04:59 AM
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don't stress. there's nothing you can do about it now go the fuck to a clinic to get tested asap
/r/askTRP31/12/14 04:58 AM
7

she just told you she doesn't see you as an attractive male. you're currently lined up as a safety net provider type if sex is being controlled by her already, how do you think the rest will play out?
/r/askTRP30/12/14 05:59 PM
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the more flexibility you give, the more available (unattractive) you appear to be tell her a date time. if she flakes, you can either wait a few days and try again OR if you are actually busy just soft next/nc until she offers a counter
/r/askTRP30/12/14 03:00 PM
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like others are saying in other words "be polarizing" aka "knock her off the fence" if you wait for the girl to make the first move, you're going to settle for around 2 or 3 points below your SMV
/r/askTRP29/12/14 08:44 PM
1

it's as good as saying "she's thinking about something you said" it all depends on how you make her feeeeeel
/r/askTRP29/12/14 08:04 PM
1

let's say you did make it. there's nothing to say you won't slip into another stage soon
/r/askTRP29/12/14 08:01 PM
1

the leading position my ex wife used to insist on taking the front during handholding. I never realized it was a dominance play by her until the marriage was over. if I would have noticed this as a red flag, I would have predicted the follow-on struggles for dominance from the brow-beating she-male
/r/askTRP29/12/14 06:57 PM
2

I had similar experiences
/r/askTRP29/12/14 06:52 PM
1

I wouldn't go. based on how you two react with each other, it's obvious there are other issues don't get into the habit of going places just to please her. once in a while is fine... just watch for the nice guy doormat behavior
/r/askTRP29/12/14 06:41 PM
3

and sadly, it worked keep training her that she needs to just fuck around with other guys to get what she wants from you
/r/askTRP29/12/14 06:38 PM
1

lesson to be learned: strike while the iron is hot
/r/askTRP29/12/14 06:33 PM
2

Some questions for you guys (yes, this is embarrassing). So I have a pretty average sized dick I think (5.5 inches), but during sex it would keep slipping out. Why is this? Does it mean something? Does it get better with practice? order her to grab your dick and dry it off with her hand. she's too fucking wet. punish her for getting too wet if you like. it's like a two-fold insta-fix Is it normal for men not to be able to cum from penetration? This went on for more than an hour*, and I was getti…
/r/askTRP29/12/14 05:17 PM
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as long as there's no emotion and she doesn't know that you found out, you can treat her as a plate with little resistance from her end if you "officially" ended it with her, then you can talk to her about FWB stuf
/r/askTRP29/12/14 02:15 AM
2

check out "stealth attraction" on YouTube quite a few gems in there, mostly clubbing tactics
/r/askTRP28/12/14 11:40 PM
0

err. a woman eating her way to 300 lbs is not feminism find a better foundation for your witty counterpoint
/r/askTRP27/12/14 09:34 PM
1

odds are if you used to be nerdy, that's going to naturally come out. don't worry about coming off "too thuggish" because you probably can't pull off 100% thug if you tried it's a good thing
/r/askTRP27/12/14 07:31 PM
0

feminism is a shit test, so treat it as such that means a&a, amused mastery, ignore, etc by all means engage and go nuclear if you can smash your opponent like Joe Rogan does on the daily
/r/askTRP27/12/14 07:26 PM
1

you gotta just get through the shallow stages of TRP. it's a side effect that comes up regularly and everyone seems to think it's because of chronic masturbation and porn for some reason
/r/askTRP27/12/14 03:45 PM
2

most of us have been where you are now. that is a sound plan
/r/askTRP27/12/14 03:09 AM
2

also realize she was taking to your mutual friend. she will lie to him just as easily as she will lie to herself no doubt you invoked tingles given SMV gap and negging
/r/askTRP26/12/14 11:17 PM
1

haters gonna hate even TRP is trying to keep me down
/r/askTRP26/12/14 11:12 PM
2

there is an analysis. if that's not good enough just remove the link. fucks not given edit: or just ban me. that'll show them wow
/r/TheRedPill26/12/14 08:19 PM
7

OP also mentioned they will talk about their feelings in January implying they won't be together until then. gee, i wonder who she will be doing when the ball drops tell her to fuck off, OP. seek a real life goal asap, find direction
/r/askTRP26/12/14 08:17 PM
1

you're absolutely right. telling him to off himself is just what he needs if you're considering suicide, you need psychological help because you are likely mentally unstable. this isn't a pill of any color, it's logical to seek help from professionals in these fields "be more alpha, bro" does not apply to suicide. the only TRP application that could be at hand is for him to talk to male professionals
/r/askTRP26/12/14 05:50 PM
1

make sure he's not bitter about the state of his relationship first. if he is, he will not spend his time reading MMSL. I've been in those bitter little beta shoes before
/r/askTRP26/12/14 05:01 PM
2

you're not going to find anyone here to defend them. these are problems that are preached over at r/TRP on a daily basis just wait until Hilary is in power
/r/askTRP26/12/14 02:31 PM
2

target the other 10%. don't settle
/r/askTRP26/12/14 02:18 PM
1

when I'm with my kid, I don't even worry about game. at that point I just keep my focus on him and where we're headed
/r/askTRP26/12/14 02:16 PM
1

it's promoted here
/r/askTRP26/12/14 02:14 PM
4

always keep two in the kitty; never be a "kept" man -16 commandments
/r/askTRP26/12/14 01:49 PM
2

rape is the most solid reason not to LTR sure it's not her fault, but no one should have to subject themselves to a mentally damaged LTR. there are so many possible issues at play with just this single fact
/r/askTRP26/12/14 01:44 PM
2

Went on a sex rampage after that, got her number to 15 before meeting me, she is 20 jesus h christ Was brutally raped at 13 severe mental risk Can't have children( won't matter to me for another decade or two) but it will eventually We both made it clear we didn't want a bf/gf thing early on, she brought it up she brought it up that she didn't want commitment? red flag. she's the girl. she's supposed to desire this (from the right man) overall, this girl is no higher than a 4. we study history f…
/r/askTRP26/12/14 01:41 PM
-1

uh, no if one is contemplating suicide you direct them to professionals. suicide hotline, therapists, chaplains, etc. it's a serious matter
/r/askTRP26/12/14 01:33 PM
1

are you living close to him? you can start dragging him out with you to bars, join a martial arts program, work out together, etc. that alone will eat away at the time he spends with his wife, and you wouldn't have to resort to explicitly telling him TRP truths
/r/askTRP26/12/14 01:15 PM
4

you exercise morals here that I agree with, and I have to say reading body language is so important. it seems you do well in this department In the future, when this happens with a girl I actually want to fuck, is this the correct attitude to project? The attitude of "I just barely give a fuck about your problems but I'm listening because I want to be polite." I felt like she got a lot more attracted after this happened. this won't always work on a girl you want to fuck. what you did here was DH…
/r/askTRP26/12/14 01:05 PM
3

somebody give this guy a Man Point
/r/askTRP26/12/14 12:15 PM
6

this is good. she called you an asshole. wait and try again later
/r/askTRP25/12/14 10:43 PM
1

doing all of this minus the tailor not even middle class, bro
/r/askTRP25/12/14 09:29 PM
1

do both. just don't dabble online more than anything else
/r/askTRP25/12/14 07:06 PM
2

choose option "player"
/r/askTRP25/12/14 06:12 PM
-6

"I'll make you cry" with a smirk edit: how was this downvoted? this type of humor has never failed. I guess people think I'm being serious
/r/askTRP25/12/14 06:03 PM
2

Side note: I'm going to Thailand this summer, got any tips on best ways to hook up there, or anything to do there? if the girl looks like a 9, make sure she doesn't have a cock
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 05:49 PM
10

A good, smart girl won't send nudes this is bullshit. a girl that wants your D will do it, and they come in all forms
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 05:37 PM
15

Plate: You look like you are about to cry... shit test level: expert btw you failed
/r/askTRP25/12/14 05:28 PM
1

something something something gut something something trust your gut. that is the feeling of instinct stemming from centuries of evolution
/r/askTRP25/12/14 05:09 PM
1

you say your interested in a LTR. you should spin plates to get one of those you'll fall deep into oneitus chasing 9s like this
/r/askTRP25/12/14 05:05 PM
3

"I could have gone further, but [insert bullshit excuse for not escalating because I'm looking for reasons to bitch out]" you still did well. a k-close is acceptable for date #1. just don't let those excuses get in your way when you f-close by date #3
/r/askTRP25/12/14 04:54 PM
5

they're both right. it's just a matter of whether you're talking about the girl pre- or post-wall pre-wall are happy to run the streets post-wall are not
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 04:47 PM
13

I would travel the country impregnating girls in their early 20's by the dozen the money would be used for Bruce Wayne level evasion technology
/r/askTRP25/12/14 02:29 PM
1

wait until you're not fucked up it's about emotion, not logic the words "I'm sorry" should leave your mouth when you're face-to-face with her so she sees the sincerity then, do the work necessary to make sure it doesn't happen again
/r/askTRP25/12/14 06:09 AM
1

I went with sexy pajamas for her to wear at my place
/r/askTRP25/12/14 05:59 AM
1

ice cold x100. run as fast as you can in the opposite direction she has 6 years on you, and you're in your 20's. these are the worst dating years of your life, so don't lock down. you're capable of so much better as you get older
/r/askTRP25/12/14 05:58 AM
1

take aspirin tonight before you sleep. apologize to your mother tomorrow
/r/askTRP25/12/14 05:54 AM
2

r/todayilearned r/dadjokes r/lifeprotips r/theredpill r/asktrp nothing beats a bad dad joke
/r/askTRP25/12/14 05:51 AM
1

there are line breaks in there... slightly squint and sarcastic resting bitch face
/r/askTRP24/12/14 05:08 PM
5

you would have gotten more answers without a TRP username people in those forums are deep in TBP rabbit hole. some of them eventually file moral bankruptcy and find us here to rebuild themselves properly
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 04:28 PM
2

so true. this is why it's such a great idea to be polarizing. make them love you or hate you, but for shit's sake don't be neutral. emotionally driven creatures love emotion
/r/askTRP24/12/14 03:55 PM
1

creating women? why not? it's about time we start doing that again
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 02:52 PM
1

see the speech in Avengers by Thor's brother after he forces a crowd to kneel before him
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 02:48 PM
1

I do. But I'm always the one setting dates too, so it kinda seems like I have all this free time and constantly want to see her. She sometimes offers suggestions but it's mostly me. Usually 4 days - a week between seeing each other. setting dates? do you have down days where you just chill at yours/hers? every once in a while you should test her interest out. if you sense that you're the only one interested (setting dates), then go idle until she hits you up to get together. it needs to be a two…
/r/askTRP24/12/14 01:12 PM
1

exactly. continue this path. keep exposing yourself to female interactions and you will feel more comfortable. eventually, you should start feeling comfortable flirting.. then comfortable making out a little, foreplay, sex, etc.
/r/askTRP24/12/14 04:56 AM
1

she's known you for 4 years and said "it's too soon" stop orbiting
/r/askTRP24/12/14 04:46 AM
1

if you didn't take her on a world tour before trying to fuck her, you would have found out sooner as well. I wouldn't spend more than 5 minutes making out before escalation, rarely above 2 you're trying hard by taking her out so much. invite her straight to your place next time "movie, my place" done. polarize her fuck spending any more money on her, and fuck it if she doesn't want to. find one that will there are better girls out there that would fall over themselves to hop on that D. find them
/r/askTRP24/12/14 04:41 AM
1

how many girls have you plated? what are you doing on dates? are you bringing her home and cuddling until you fall asleep or something?
/r/askTRP24/12/14 04:25 AM
3

nice! I'm going through the same stuff it's normal. it's unrealistic to think she could keep up with the pace when it was new. you're entering the long game, albeit a little soon (1 month?) one nice trick to keep the flames going is to be unavailable. schedule shit, stay busy, stay on your mission. remember she's tagging along because you chose her, and you're one bad ass motherfucker. just keep being badass and she will stay at your side if you have nothing going on, and you constantly hang out…
/r/askTRP24/12/14 03:55 AM
7

posted in TRP 2d ago by u/insickness: Negative game. That’s what me and my friend call it. The hotter the girl, the more negative game you need. Negs. Active disinterest. Hard qualification. “What do you do?” I ask her. “I’m a model,” she responds. “A model in New York… shocking,” I respond with obvious disdain. Negative game. These women eat it up. The drama. The excitement. The challenge. They’re fed a daily diet of constant, predictable validation from all angles. It becomes like cocaine to t…
/r/askTRP24/12/14 01:46 AM
7

wise men once said: negative game their personality as far as maintenance, you really need to graduate from the "fake it till you make it" stage
/r/askTRP24/12/14 12:49 AM
1

she's punishing you because she's still in love with her ex? obviously propose next time you meet seriously though, what she's doing is not logical. nothing physical because she doesn't want to get emotionally attached... then why the fuck is she bringing guys home from the bar? this is why women get lumped into the category of children. that shit is childish. what if I told you... your time is important. would that make a difference?
/r/askTRP24/12/14 12:41 AM
4

snoop-a-loop said it best don't get blinded by this plate
/r/askTRP24/12/14 12:08 AM
0

why did this get downvoted? he's right. LTRs should never get to the point where one is afraid to lose her. this is TRP 101
/r/askTRP23/12/14 08:02 PM
2

Google "lifehacker start-to-finish guide to buying a home"
/r/askTRP23/12/14 05:57 PM
5

Google "cognitive dissonance" for me
/r/askTRP23/12/14 02:29 PM
2

watch her squirm smirk slightly squint sarcastic resting bitch face any dialogue 99% of the time, do not be the first to look away. exceptions include driving, operating heavy machinery, cycling, etc
/r/askTRP23/12/14 02:25 PM
3

her age and her seemingly unwillingness to commit. girls desire commitment unless they are fantasizing about the cc
/r/askTRP23/12/14 02:20 PM
3

a girl that's into you won't shit test that hard. sure you failed the test, but that was unnecessary LMR. LMR is used to either fend off dudes that haven't built rapport, OR use sex as a control mechanism. guess which reason she used it on you. she didn't even give you a bullshit excuse like "I have a headache" or "my stomach hurts" you are in a denial and I can tell by your unwillingness to take advice. unfortunately, you won't understand what any of us are trying to tell you. hopefully you cat…
/r/askTRP23/12/14 02:16 PM
1

I went on a date to a girl's house where she was having dinner with her parents. this is something you do in a LTR she even blew some smoke on me which made me mad try amused mastery instead She asks me if i want to go get ice cream because she wants to ditch her parents, i say yes, we hop in her car which she let me drive (she has a sick car). Instead of going to the ice cream place we go to the local vapor pen shop and find out its closed. We drive around for a while listening to music, talkin…
/r/askTRP23/12/14 01:11 PM
5

if this is her norm, she sounds crazy
/r/askTRP23/12/14 04:33 AM
2

this is out of your control no apologies, no interest at all from her end I'd hard next unless she completely breaks/surrenders within the next month
/r/askTRP23/12/14 03:31 AM
3

it forces you to be the needy one by putting yourself in the weaker position you could play games and still come out in a position of power... try only texting/calling when you want to fuck her
/r/askTRP22/12/14 11:57 PM
2

on his 40th birthday, I had a solid role model figure (prior marine) tell me his 30s were the best years of his life, and he was looking forward to his 40s males within your social circle want to keep you down so they don't look bad in comparison and females want to keep you within their orbit this is a completely normal social reaction
/r/askTRP22/12/14 08:54 PM
3

this, abundance
/r/askTRP22/12/14 08:42 PM
6

in the words of Elsa or whatever the fuck: if she doesn't want to contact you first... "let it go" she will eventually, or she won't
/r/askTRP22/12/14 08:40 PM
1

maybe that's where I differ I view a FWB and a plate as two different types of lays. any FWB situation is an agreed upon sexual relationship ONLY--never more, never less a plate doesn't know what I'm thinking so she's hoping to keep me around with sex, and I'm not being direct with her or taking her seriously because I don't know what kind of girl I'm dealing with. she can get promoted to gf status slowly and, if necessary, demoted back to plate quickly. if she's not gf/LTR/wife material, I keep…
/r/askTRP22/12/14 08:11 PM
2

the impression you're under is correct
/r/askTRP22/12/14 05:33 PM
1

disagree I'd rather not LTR or wife up a girl that withholds sex from me before I put in my commitment. it sets the foundation in her power from the start. she should think she is getting the better deal (dating up). though, that approach is great if you're into egalitarianism inb4, screen for curb sluts
/r/askTRP22/12/14 05:30 PM
1

girls your age are checking out guys like me at 30 and up
/r/askTRP22/12/14 05:20 PM
2

if the plate feels ashamed to fuck you, then you have other problems like other guy said, you shouldn't have any fucks to give. it's not a big deal
/r/askTRP22/12/14 05:15 PM
1

nearly any personality/intent/relationship question is a shit test and should be treated as such until you learn to read her properly
/r/askTRP22/12/14 05:12 PM
1

the line of respect was crossed into attempted public humiliation. no girl is worth the pump if she retaliates to a neg like that. better to appeal to the public eye by reciprocating automatic -5 points on the HB scale
/r/askTRP22/12/14 05:08 PM
1

I would add for OP, you have step one locked down: spin plates to gain XP you've test-driven several cars by now, so you're learning what you like the first 6-24 months of a LTR are easy, so don't wife up during this period
/r/askTRP22/12/14 05:02 PM
3

betas act the same way
/r/askTRP22/12/14 04:52 PM
3

the more you feel like you need to cling to her, the less you should it's instinctual to try to cling if you don't think you can do any better. change that mindset by bettering yourself
/r/askTRP22/12/14 02:47 PM
1

yup. be peering over her shoulder to catch that unlock code
/r/askTRP22/12/14 04:09 AM
-3

wrong you're forgetting sandwich skills
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 10:53 PM
5

best odds in house if you don't count hold 'em blackjack, not marriage
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 10:51 PM
-2

this is oversimplifying, but close to how I view it unattractive asshole = disrespectful attractive asshole = not respectful, not disrespectful nice guy = respectful the attractive asshole usually makes an impression by slamming his dick on the table and/or being opinionated/decisive (frame)
/r/askTRP21/12/14 09:47 PM
11

ignore it you can only fuck this up by acting insecure
/r/askTRP21/12/14 09:44 PM
2

so here we have the contradiction she's "scared of being single and unemployed", yet isn't worried about you leaving her at all until you threatened divorce from the outside it sounds like she's waiting to get knocked off the fence (indecisive) a new job may not fix the issue. what is she gaining besides security in case of divorce? she can use the mandatory separation time to find a job if she's only keeping it for that reason
/r/askTRP21/12/14 07:00 PM
1

script much? tell her the dialogue you'll exchange too while you're at it
/r/askTRP21/12/14 06:56 PM
1

I don't even understand your reference, pop culture boy
/r/askTRP21/12/14 06:55 PM
-2

I love you man. this bud's on me
/r/askTRP21/12/14 06:00 PM
4

mind: blown once she starts withholding sex, I agree with that
/r/askTRP21/12/14 05:35 PM
2

what are your thoughts on a LTR that minimizes validation tools on her own free will once exclusivity is established?
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 04:08 PM
1

we're not having sex --"oh, you're thinking about fucking again?" --"you're silly" --(laugh) --"I better text my side bitch then" --"we're having so much sex" stop going down on her thinking it will get you anything. if you want a BJ, push her head down. since she's a prude, she will respond with a question (which would be a shit test) OR she will say no. if she questions you, just laugh or tease her for being such a tease. you do need to be careful here. if she says "NO" or "STOP", you need to …
/r/askTRP21/12/14 03:53 PM
2

this is an ok mindset, but cannot come across as a verbal ultimatum. this man needs to speak through his actions
/r/askTRP21/12/14 03:30 PM
11

what's her job doing for the marriage? cut it off. if she throws a fit, don't budge. if the stalemate continues, get a separation learn to apply dread. she says to alpha up, you say you feel beta, yet for some reason you think she needs MORE validation from you? that's horse shit apply dread by going out with buddies. get back into lifting. put yourself in social situations where you can find potential plates. "never be a kept man" applies. your wife is not allowing herself to be a kept woman a …
/r/askTRP21/12/14 01:45 PM
1

where from??
/r/askTRP21/12/14 01:37 PM
0

"why not"
/r/askTRP21/12/14 04:51 AM
1

I like this, OP you made mistakes by arguing over texts as others have already pointed out this is a test of your outcome independence and will strengthen your position in your relationship if you play it correctly. minimal effort and/or aloof game will keep her from getting bored she won't want to dump you because of this argument. if she did want to dump you for other reasons, she would rationalize the New Years problem as the reason. this is good because you'd find out where her interests lie…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 01:50 AM
1

in this case maybe an over the top "AAAWWWHH poor baby" would work
/r/askTRP21/12/14 12:13 AM
1

no, but you can explain to her the differences in gender goals. if she sees you as an alpha male, she will comply with you spinning plates
/r/askTRP20/12/14 09:59 PM
1

I agree with you here
/r/askTRP20/12/14 06:06 PM
1

yeah, that's what I meant
/r/askTRP20/12/14 05:29 PM
1

right on I'll never be in a position where I constantly whine about how I'm being treated in society
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 05:26 PM
1

it's hard to tell what her motive is. women have a knack for not understating how a real date should go down. her lunch suggestion could be an attempt at that she's either planning to fuck you or dump her feelings on you
/r/askTRP20/12/14 11:55 AM
0

seems like a silly way to say "focus on yourself instead of pussy" it's probably successful because that's a well-known approach to life as a man. just hard to practice
/r/askTRP20/12/14 11:48 AM
1

the approach is the win. the acceptance/rejection is irrelevant there are several reasons a woman can reject a man. most of them are completely out of your control getting rejected is good because it means you're approaching. if you don't get rejected often, you're not approaching aka not doing it right
/r/askTRP20/12/14 11:44 AM
3

ignore the issue and treat her the same as any average girl not on a pedestal if she puts up LMR, use the best friend thing "you're right, it would be so dirty of us to do this" (dirty = fun)
/r/askTRP20/12/14 11:26 AM
3

relax, don't burn yourself out. are you getting enough rest? your progress is amazing
/r/askTRP20/12/14 05:47 AM
5

somewhat disagree. I want any LTR I have to be very sexual during her sexual prime. I find ink and tattoos to be sexy in moderation I do agree with the impulsive behavior concern, but not all ink/piercings are done on impulse
/r/askTRP20/12/14 04:35 AM
3

lady in the streets, freak in the sheets it is not always a bad thing for a LTR, but some are just curb sluts
/r/askTRP20/12/14 02:48 AM
6

you sound motherly look into r/redpillwomen
/r/askTRP20/12/14 12:41 AM
1

the gym issue I've faced try getting a personal trainer or join some kind of program that requires a payment plan. this will give you an obligation to go get it
/r/askTRP19/12/14 11:19 PM
1

yup, next her (your terms). it's the only way to get out without falling apart there are a ridiculous number of girls better than this one
/r/askTRP19/12/14 11:12 PM
0

yup. jerk off, bro until you bleed
/r/askTRP19/12/14 10:05 PM
2

interesting point of view there is an excitement lingering inside me every time I think about my son's future. I get to guide him through tough situations and give him a stable outlook on life. I will be earning the privilege to do that as we go
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 07:35 PM
8

then the issue you have with approaching is you are not confident because of your face. think about how fucking yoked you are rather than one of your weaker features, and yes, 8s a lot of popular PUAs are baby-faced/average in the face and pull 9s
/r/askTRP19/12/14 07:22 PM
1

since you are so adamant about sticking around, here is a careful approach that gives her the benefit of the doubt: be on the lookout for changes in her attitude. snarky comments, aloofness, distrust, and entitlement are some things that will follow any sudden drop in respect. it will be almost impossible for her to hide those things since she will be so disgusted for having fucked a weak, nice guy (exaggerated to make the point)
/r/askTRP19/12/14 07:20 PM
13

she's projecting guy game on you. she gets jealous at the thought of you getting with other girls, so she thinks the same thing will work on you feelings will ensue
/r/askTRP19/12/14 06:28 PM
11

spot on OP needs to realize that the game flips once a woman reaches average attractiveness check out some PUA videos and focus on IOIs--what they are, how to detect them, and how to force them you are capable of pulling 8s if what you say is true. you just have to approach without seeming thirsty
/r/askTRP19/12/14 06:26 PM
2

my dad has always been a man of few words, quite stoic, treated the radfem brigade as a shit test throughout the years... but although he was present, he was a stoner who kept his attention on work, weed, and his car. my mom got huge, housework never got done (no steps were installed for the back door for over 10 years), and he cried in front of my mom when his mother died shortly after that, dad suspected she was cheating. he left a note and was GONE. he left her after 19 years because she star…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 06:20 PM
2

no signs of cheating... aside from the ridiculously late nights of partying, ignoring your calls, and guilt denial is a rough stage. she will probably keep fucking you while fucking other guy so she can make an informed decision to branch swing or not just check her breath next time she stumbles in and see if it smells like a big, juicy sirloin
/r/askTRP19/12/14 05:28 PM
9

she's a plate for some other guy now
/r/askTRP19/12/14 03:18 PM
1

which is 100% normal. you know you're not good at it, but so what? be fucking awfully awkward on purpose. do the handshake-hug-handshake indecision a few times. it's a funny icebreaker
/r/askTRP19/12/14 02:03 PM
12

tightness has to do with exercise and the girl's age
/r/askTRP19/12/14 01:12 PM
1

the root is the issue is you're not sure of yourself. you're not sure of yourself because you don't know what to do. you don't know what to do because you're an amateur. you're an amateur because you have no experience-- get experience
/r/askTRP18/12/14 10:41 PM
3

ABC Always Be Closing
/r/askTRP18/12/14 10:36 PM
2

is this problem with girls a lack of desire or is this an anxiety problem?
/r/askTRP18/12/14 10:34 PM
1

it's ok to have strong emotional feelings in most ranges. just push those fuckers down deep inside unless it's anger, pride, or confidence
/r/askTRP18/12/14 10:24 PM
0

nope you should start internally questioning her values yesterday depending on where you are in the relationship, I would either put my foot down and tell her it's a line she can't cross if she wants to stay in the LTR... OR ...soft next, treat her like a plate while you browse your options outside of your relationship
/r/askTRP18/12/14 09:02 PM
1

check top comments in r/trpgame
/r/askTRP18/12/14 08:29 PM
1

actually, it's too hard to tell what she thinks she wants. this is why you shouldn't give a straight answer most girls want to imagine they can get an experienced man without having to think about how he could be chasing girls (rather than being chased, which is exponentially more attractive) no straight answers, have fun
/r/askTRP18/12/14 08:28 PM
1

the dating game she's acting oblivious to laws of attraction/interest/desire and showing you her hand (open to you). you're in the position to be able to tell if she's just extremely manipulative or just ignorant of it you either have LOTS of room for error, or you should tread very carefully
/r/askTRP18/12/14 06:07 PM
2

this says she isn't very aware of game, so this is a plate on easy mode 2:3 ratio is good
/r/askTRP18/12/14 05:04 PM
1

in my opinion, only work on game if you're interested. otherwise SMV all the way
/r/askTRP18/12/14 03:17 PM
0

yup it depends on the girl; how she was raised in regard to sense of entitlement, level of security, comfort, SMV, penis debt, etc
/r/askTRP18/12/14 03:15 PM
1

put 6'5" in your profile and do a shirtless douchebag pic. if you're fit, you'll get hits like others have said, TRP doesn't apply well to online interactions
/r/askTRP18/12/14 01:11 PM
1

you talk and worry too much judge her by her actions, not her words. it's best if you walk and go monk mode for a while
/r/askTRP18/12/14 01:08 PM
1

I wouldn't want to LTR a girl whose fear of rejection is stronger than her passion for me your example doesn't really speak to the emotions involved, so unless you were sitting in her shoes you will never know how her failure actually went down it's not a sole indicator, but the fear of rejection proves she has to want it badly enough. and it's rewarding to both parties if she takes the leap. I mean, I'm not paying money for a curb slut and putting her through this test. that's a given
/r/askTRP18/12/14 12:49 AM
1

other good advice aside, you're only 18. you both have a LOT of growing up and changing to do--more than you could ever realize from your position now. this doesn't mean be pessimistic about your relationship, but rather just have fun with her as long as it lasts. you (usually) only regret the things you don't do happiness = reality - expectations
/r/askTRP17/12/14 11:36 PM
2

this. you choose to accept if she pushes you need to play it like you have options. if she pushes first, you will know she wants you enough and you will be making her work for it
/r/askTRP17/12/14 10:22 PM
5

1 - mindset (stay cool, calm, collected, confident, slightly aloof, etc) 2 - call/text schedule a bang (movie night at your place, checkers, footsie, etc) 3 - repeat as time and desire allow you may get blocked by her ASD, but you can have fun with it if it gets heated again--"it'll be our little secret" notice how much i elaborated on how to handle the bf
/r/askTRP17/12/14 09:06 PM
1

I wouldn't waste my time. "the talk" is a power play by her, so you already lose by accepting it. then, it's nothing but her feelings and point of view--the exact definition of HER frame actually now that I type this, go and see it first hand so you can experience the disgusting fallout of a girl that's lost interest in you. hell, try to have fun with it and get a free pity drink or two from her edit: just saw your update on "the talk". she's not even really a plate, so it's not realistic for he…
/r/askTRP17/12/14 08:29 PM
2

source: The Sex God Method
/r/askTRP17/12/14 08:15 PM
1

you can encourage it by "saying it" without saying it. she really has no out if you are capable of holding an ounce of frame on the subject and if you're prone to rationalizing it that way, it's just as easy to rationalize it as her not wanting it enough the whole premise of this is two-fold. it ensures SHE wants it, and it makes her WORK for it. two qualities that are important to know about a girl you plan on LTRing
/r/askTRP17/12/14 08:13 PM
13

plates don't give permission, silly
/r/askTRP17/12/14 08:10 PM
2

don't worry. hit the sidebar hard, lift, and go out with buddies. learn how to pick up on IOIs and force IOIs above all, stay busy with awesome shit
/r/askTRP17/12/14 06:51 PM
3

stick around and do what you want to do with her, she will push for LTR also, never say "I love you" first
/r/askTRP17/12/14 06:49 PM
1

read up on pua stuff
/r/askTRP17/12/14 04:26 PM
3

read the sex God method
/r/askTRP17/12/14 04:24 PM
2

yup that's a line that's been crossed any LTR I have will have a female trainer, otherwise she gets demoted to plate
/r/askTRP17/12/14 03:18 PM
5

yup, you need to continue to build attraction or she will wander into her exciting new social circle and out of your life
/r/askTRP17/12/14 03:15 PM
1

true, but I think the paths he chooses are exaggerated for the sake of entertainment
/r/askTRP17/12/14 03:09 PM
3

American Beauty is a perfect example of a man who gets over feeling sorry for himself and takes complete control of his life. he doesn't blame others textbook TRP
/r/askTRP17/12/14 01:22 PM
3

spot on. just let her know "you don't want to let her go, but you're just not looking for anything like that" and shutting down the LJBF request is crucial to extending her time as plate it also helps to make fun of how serious she's being. if you're playful, it reminds her to lighten up and that you both enjoy having fun together "why so serious"
/r/askTRP17/12/14 05:09 AM
1

avoid caffiene 4-8 hours before sleeping
/r/askTRP16/12/14 11:55 PM
2

now be careful. don't start doing shit because it's what you think she wants you to do
/r/askTRP16/12/14 10:49 PM
0

lingerie skittles massages together vacation together
/r/askTRP16/12/14 10:34 PM
1

assuming LTR... if you can get your girl to understand the polygamy vs hypergamy difference between genders, you can get one-on-ones with other women that don't threaten your relationships. she is only worried she will be replaced because she projects her nature onto you. that's not realistic, since men seek variety--NOT replacement
/r/askTRP16/12/14 10:31 PM
1

your SMV gap could be too high or your dread is too weak. she seems extremely comfortable with the situations you've shared
/r/askTRP16/12/14 10:22 PM
6

"why shouldn't you"
/r/askTRP16/12/14 09:30 PM
1

exactly!!! she is projecting by trying to run guy game on you that's flattering for you. whatever you're doing, keep it up
/r/askTRP16/12/14 09:08 PM
7

by invoking a reaction from a girl you're interested in eye contact, conversation, and kino will "prompt" her to respond to you. then you can search for IOIs this is alternative to sitting back and hoping to get noticed
/r/askTRP16/12/14 09:05 PM
1

please don't send that message for the love of Jesus all of the shit you told us is a DIRECT result of her wanting your attention. she's into you jokingly tell her to pull cute girl's number for you next time while she's out... then change the subject just pay attention over a long period of time to her bar visits. if they seem to happen too often, start soft nexting and looking for a better girl (they exist)
/r/askTRP16/12/14 08:52 PM
5

how do you apply dread? was that your example? dread is the fear that you would betray her by devoting your time/energy to another woman. when you reassure her by answering all of her questions at a serious level, you allow her to crush your dread game and believe nothing could happen look into a&a and subtly bring it into your routine conversations as practice for the next time you're interrogated
/r/askTRP16/12/14 08:43 PM
1

lift and a&a when appropriate don't let them get to you. ever. this is important also slap them back in a joking way. don't be afraid to scrap. you just need to let them know you have a backbone
/r/askTRP16/12/14 08:24 PM
1

if you're not above a 7, you're better off hitting up a bar or club
/r/askTRP16/12/14 07:21 PM
22

eh, this means you look good. keep it up some guys, including gays, are good at forcing IOIs. just watch yourself and make sure you don't send out any accidentally
/r/askTRP16/12/14 07:18 PM
1

play on her emotions "LTRs are voluntary, marriages are obligatory"
/r/askTRP16/12/14 07:15 PM
0

that's exactly what I'm saying I've been to several live shows and listened to shit like this for 20 years. it's all about their attitude. they say some pretty juvenile shit, but they do it with balls
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 03:28 PM
3

she's game aware and using it on you. you just need to cut through the bullshit with this one and be bold
/r/askTRP16/12/14 02:13 PM
1

"... hug those hooker boots right out of her" -Bill Burr
/r/askTRP16/12/14 12:22 PM
2

about as cliche as it gets
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 11:38 AM
8

haters gonna hate what do you listen to? Meghan Trainor? when you can only say "gay", "bro", and "lol" to make fun of my music... lol
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 11:37 AM
6

attila, attila, and attila cannot get away from such raw, heavy metal no others compare (pantera, trivium, avenged, etc... they just aren't as powerful) http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-QY-aOhtYmg
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:42 AM
15

rap isn't me, but I would prefer that over anything outside of metal/rock. it usually has a strong stance against taking shit from people, which I like
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 08:08 PM
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it's as simple as pop being the most popular music at a national level as a metalhead, it's just a reality I had to accept quickly
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 06:54 PM
2

performing these self-improvement actions for female validation is perfectly fine. TRP strategy will open your eyes to the differences you can make in your life and THAT FEMALE ATTENTION IS NOT THE ONLY GAIN YOU'RE EARNING I say go ahead and do it for the women if that's what motivates you. you will change if you work hard enough when you start to notice your sense of self, relationships, friendships, and career interactions improve, you notice it was worth it even if done for the wrong reason
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 05:35 PM
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true, but she alludes to being lazy with her eyeglasses comment as well. he probably has high standards which she is no longer meeting. there are likely a lot of other areas where she's slacking off. people tend to select which personal downfalls they like to share with others
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 05:20 PM
5

thank you for that. never viewed dread this way
/r/askTRP15/12/14 03:54 AM
1

I like the top answers here. as a side note, don't let up on dread. increase it
/r/askTRP14/12/14 06:42 PM
1

isn't it sadly ironic that you think you need to be taught how to take charge in the bedroom as a married man you know wtf to do. grope, kiss, pull clothes off, and fuck don't forget to smile occasionally
/r/askTRP14/12/14 06:22 AM
10

why would you fuck women over 30 just because you're over 30
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 01:30 AM
16

wait, that's not a thing??
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 07:23 PM
5

"...we need more men to step up." that's all I heard. thanks OP!
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 07:21 PM
9

step back and think about how young beta boys were perceived by her and her friends I bet money this same type of groupthink happened where they would ask "why do you feel bad for him?"
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 07:06 PM
27

can confirm, am already excited to be 30 next year the world is my bitch
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 07:02 PM
1

it will be some time before that happens "I'm not looking for commitment" works. if she has a problem with that, you can just convey to her that "you like her and want her to stick around, but you understand if she doesn't" the feeeeeling behind the message is more important than the words you use to express this you can buy time with plates, but plates WILL drop
/r/askTRP13/12/14 12:34 PM
1

you don't need women if you can't improve physically, replace it with improving socially and mentally
/r/askTRP13/12/14 12:27 PM
1

look man, she's not your gf it's ok to show some disapproval, but you did let your emotions get the best of you here you don't control her. in fact, you should allow her all the freedom she could ever want. whether you want to spend time with her is your decision. these are the little things you keep an eye on while plating a girl if she continuously displays traits that you don't approve of, either distance yourself emotionally or go nc. if she wants to reciprocate in the relationship, her hams…
/r/askTRP13/12/14 12:17 PM
1

revenge fuck is fine. what's the ultimate goal here? to test if she's a suitable partner if it takes fucking someone else because she has a wild imagination, then OP just saved himself from a doomed marriage later in life
/r/askTRP12/12/14 04:10 PM
2

right here OP your lunch date established rapport, so go in for the kill
/r/askTRP12/12/14 04:02 PM
1

OP stated he was not married I couldn't plate an ex-wife, but that doesn't make it impossible. it's more likely to gain a FWB situation out of an ex-wife anyway due to the previously shared LTR experience
/r/askTRP12/12/14 03:59 PM
2

it's ok to take some blame ONLY if you use it as motivation to move forward and improve hard next her and NEVER take a woman back if you're fighting BP tendencies, don't even entertain the thought of plating her
/r/askTRP12/12/14 03:44 PM
3

there is no shame in several of those. if a woman feels that way about how you act, it makes plating easier
/r/TheRedPill12/12/14 03:40 PM
0

fuck her until you get yours, and then toss her the vibrator as you walk out the door you shouldn't have to babysit her in the bedroom. if she's not getting off, it's her short term problem HOWEVER, this is your long term problem. you can fix this buy continuing on your path to self improvement and eventually things can work smoothly
/r/askTRP11/12/14 06:31 PM
5

you ask how you should feel.. you should feel horny, and then satisfied when finished
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 06:21 PM
1

while what you say about being mean is true, these are words from her mouth that OP did not confirm were true. it's more likely OP is just not being nice as she expects him to
/r/askTRP11/12/14 01:58 PM
1

remaining amused is paramount to any other advice you can receive here
/r/askTRP11/12/14 01:54 PM
2

assume she's a 6 who wants to fuck. don't coordinate more than necessary
/r/askTRP11/12/14 01:45 PM
13

sure, 5'4" 300 lbs
/r/askTRP11/12/14 01:42 PM
1

similar idea applies to all branches of the military
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 12:25 PM
2

I couldn't decide, so I'm dabbling in a little bjj and little lifting. I didn't want to sit around weighing out which one was better and end up doing nothing
/r/TheRedPill10/12/14 07:58 PM
5

"I knew this sub was full of horrible people" -it's full of men. this separates us from 95% of reddit, and it's not our fault you have distorted views of reality "a woman who had sex to escape sexual harassment" -there are other ways. INFIDELITY isn't one of them. that would only encourage it. this is just logic.. oh wait I shouldn't be using that, fuck me right? "awful motives" -she had awful motives. she wanted some alpha dick. she fucked another man while she was MARRIED. she's currently seek…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 01:44 AM
4

very accurate. this is was the final nail in the coffin of my marriage and exactly how it played out after 6 years and lots of bitter beta resentment, even MMSL couldn't save it. MMSL wanted me to add much more affection to my wife than I felt she deserved from me OP, continue on your own path. she will either follow or she won't. also, fuck her comments because you're important
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 05:48 PM
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can confirm. plated a girl months ago who had a "relationship" with a pilot. he also treated her like shit, so obviously she thought he was such a dick that girl was properly alpha-widowed. I didn't ask her much about her history. this was all casual conversation (bragging) i am less than half of the average pilot's rank, but she stuck around for the basic military SMV while I smashed her shit tests and LMR. I kept her around as a plate until I found a girl I wanted to transform into a unicorn s…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 06:51 AM
1

29, using alts since feb. life 180'ed
/r/askTRP05/12/14 03:58 PM
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