I've (32) gone out with this chick (28) a few times, the last being December 6th. That night we went out and I rode back to her place with her from the bar. We were in her bed and after some heavy foreplay I reached for the condom and she started bawling. She tells me she is still hurt from her ex (shifty breakup 6 months ago from 5 year relationship) and doesn't want to get physical because she's afraid of being hurt. When we've been together we have had a great time, and she has definitely been very interested, but she's always seemed distant when we are away. Short texts and almost no time on the phone; pretty much all of our communication has been logistical.

I know she isn't seeing anyone else, and I'm the first person she's gone out with since her breakup. I wound up spending the night and leaving the next morning (no ride). She text me Sunday about when we could get together again. I told her I'd let her know Monday. Monday I sent her a text saying I could get together Thursday. She never sent me a text back. She has sent me 4 or 5 snapchats since, but I doubt any of them were specifically for me. I didn't respond and have had no contact since.

I'm thinking about giving it one more chance before I completely move on from her. Should I go ahead and do it now and see what the reaction is (im pretty outcome independent), give it more time, wait for her to make the first move, or just forget her completely?