I’m extremely consfused on if redpill works. For example before with my ex gf. When I was following the redpill. When I was aloof and was acting selfish and narcissistic not only was I degenerate but I was at my worse. She simped more.. But eventually she had enough. And we got into a fight. And I just left her.

Later when me and her started talking again and we agreed to start over I treat her completely different now. I’m respectful to her i show I care all the time and I compliment her and give her lots of validation. And I even look better and I completely improved myself. And now she doesn’t seem to care about me a lot anymore and I’m not a priority anymore she has all the power now and I’m the one who likes her more it seems. Even though she says she likes this and wants me like this. Is this due to me acting beta now? And this proves trp right? I personally thought it was all about looks and status which I’m far superior to her in. And I’ve improved a lot in. Compared to my previous self. Who was lesser in both.

Why was I treated better before compared to now? Should I act like I don’t care again. Even though I really do she’s taking me for granted like I did before to her. She says it’s cause she’s still mad. But shouldn’t trp and lms override that?