I feel like I'm touching on something and reaching a point of NGAF that I'm almost scared of maybe it bordering on delusion. Here, I'll explain what I mean.

So I view everything in the world through the lens of frame and leverage. If I go to a supermarket, my frame is my grocery list, and my goal is to hold frame. The supermarket has leverage in terms of discounts, the way it organizes foods, and the air-conditioning in the place. The more I want to stay and look around, the more likely I am to break frame and buy outside of my list.

Then there's argument for LMS (looks, money, status). For example, incels might view looks as some sort of holy grail, but ultimately, they're holding themselves up to a standard that's outside of themselves. In doing so, they've already lost frame. Instead of saying "I'm a high value male" while still working on themselves and approaching to improve their game and overall leverage, they've basically surrendered their frame to what others tell them to value and they're stuck coping and rationalizing. So then, they've already fucked themselves.

Or here's another one. Viewing a guy with a bigger dick or better looks than them, and then comparing themselves and being defeated. They've already broken frame. In my POV, even if I had a little ass dick, I would still not be insecure about it because it is what it is. I create the leverage I can and deal with the situation to get the desired result. I have no control over how anyone reacts to my value.

The goal seems to ultimately be to make my frame into THE FRAME that others adopt. So if a girl makes an unintentional comment like "that's a smaller dick than usual", I would be unphased and be like "yeah, and you're going to damn enjoy it ". Obviously exaggerated, but you get the idea. It's almost as though without giving up the power and frame, I would become unfuckwithable.

Another one off the top of my head would be someone without an arm and with a prosthetic arm. Couldn't that "weakness" be turned into leverage? Like on a tinder profile, it could give off the vibe of being vulnerable and non-threatening to girls, and then other leverage (like being in shape) or other aspects of high value can be used to pull them in. It's like a game of balancing being non-threatening, with having leverage and holding frame.

Thoughts?