Does it get better?

R_E_D_1 · 2014-08-05T02:06:23+00:00

Stop putting effort into pursuing girls and start getting into hobbies you enjoy. Focus on getting to know people and interacting with them as you do these hobbies. The feedback you receive via body language and other nonverbal cues will help you shape your language so that you can learn to be more attractive with your personality and not just your body.

Girls are always attracted to the appearance of affluence. But the kind of girls that come to you for that will be good to use solely as jackoff toys, not as friends or potential LTRs. If you want to build meaningful relationships you, first, have to learn how to be a meaningful, multi-faceted person. And getting into some hobbies will help tremendously. I mean, for fuck's sake. You're in college where there are nothing but clubs, organizations, athletic teams and everything else you can get into. Go. Become the kind of person that draws the kind of people you want to be around and go do some shit besides study and go clubbing.

648262 · 2014-08-05T06:26:41+00:00

At 27. It becomes ridiculous when they are 34. You don't want that.

Develop your social life man. Get a friend or two.

IamAwaken · 2014-08-06T02:55:48+00:00

Sounds like you are too much scumbag and not enough boyfriend 'potential'. Try going out on normal dates if you want ltr, but the fact that you haven't turned these ONS into plates says that your missing some stuff. Probably intimacy and or dominance. I recommend you read the sex god method.

Anyway I don't know enough to judge more than that. It's probably your perspective throwing it off. Your shallow comment on income reflects very poor character value. Sorry for that honesty... Not really.

kingofpoplives · 2014-08-05T17:18:39+00:00

Will girls start flocking to me once I'm out of college

The short answer is no. Actually, your success could decline post college when you leave the college bar scene and become the youngest guy in the post-college bar scene.

But the bright side is things will get better. My profile is somewhat similar to yours and they certainly did for me.

The vast majority of men don't hit their prime until their late 20's when the mix of experience with women, status/money, and masculine features fully mesh.

I hear a lot of stuff on here about girls being vultures for wealthy guys

It's true...sort of. Women will happily use a wealthy man for any and everything he is willing to provide, but that doesn't mean they are truly attracted to him unless he has the alpha mentality go along with it.

So many guys would kill to get 3-5 lays in a year outside of relationships. If you keep working on yourself and studying the game, by time you get close to 30 you'll be doing a lot better -- although sleeping with super hot women never gets easy unless you happen to acquire super-alpha status in the right niche.

kick6 · 2014-08-05T20:21:05+00:00

Honestly, girls will probably never "start flocking to you." You'll see an uptick in attention, but only the Brad Pitts of the world have women actively throwing themselves at them.

That being said: college girls don't want relationships. They've been conditioned that college is the time to "find themselves" (meaning fuck every different kind of dick they can get their twat on). You should be thankful: 3-5 lays a year is what the average dude does IN A LIFETIME. And you don't have to put up with their stupid shit afterwards!

AlphaAsFAQ · 2014-08-04T23:19:52+00:00

3-5 isn't a big sample set. Either you were not compatible with these girls or you are not enjoyable to hang around with. If you have just had some bad luck with the girls you have been pulling, don't worry and just keep having fun until you find a good one; if that's not it then the issue is you.

Take a step back and start looking at things in your life that would not be apparent initially but someone may notice after spending 24hrs with you. Your breath, your apartment, your BO, your text game, your conversation skills, your dependency issues (if any), your pets, your taste in music etc.

From what you tell us you can attract girls with aesthetics but push them away with something else. I am in no way advocating changing your music preference for women, but if you wake up in the morning and throw on some Slip Knot while making breakfast for your 8 cats...

unethical_pirate · 2014-08-04T22:43:09+00:00

So your looking to buy a girlfriend, I think you've taken a wrong turn. 60/70k isn't going to get you a whole lot of women after mortgage, car payments, insurance, nice clothes etc if that's all you've got to fall back on. You really going to be happy if your buying someone's time and affection?

Title	Does it get better?
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Date	August 4, 2014 10:28 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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