Does life get better as you grow?

kojimasbeard1 · 2019-07-05T10:34:29+00:00

We'll....the past three years of my life have been the same...jabs and uppercuts... honestly, I am better off than I was three years ago. But you have got to be willing to put in the time to analyse, assess and self-exam yourself. Asking the right questions. I asked a ton of questions and I arrived here - at the Red pill.

Going through the motions and not paying attention is how you get fucked. Be prepared for worse luck, but pay attention because tough times create hard men.

McVaghunter · 2019-07-05T10:36:54+00:00

As long as you don't get married, growing up means more pussy and a whole lot more money.

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2019-07-05T11:47:42+00:00

Expect downs and lows. It's never gonna be perfect, nothing will ever last and you better learn how to go with the flow instead of trying to fight it. Learn your lessons, analyse your behaviour and decisions and do better next time. And again and again and again.

HotHead121 · 2019-07-05T10:43:17+00:00

Depends on how you see things... your problems are oportunity to grow for another man

TRPKiddo · 2019-07-05T11:06:17+00:00

That’s up to you.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-07-05T16:43:07+00:00

It’s awesome if you’re me, but you have to plan and work to make things happen.

The guy up on the mountain top didn’t fall there.

FilthyStylish · 2019-07-05T12:12:54+00:00

It’s not gonna get better on its own unless you win the lottery or something. But otherwise you’ll have to put in the work and have the circumstances serve you in order for life to get better.

MattyAnon · 2019-07-05T16:33:50+00:00

Does life get better as you grow?

Yes if you make it better.

Some years are a complete clusterfuck and others you manage to make enough progress that you can improve yourself and your life.

It doesn't automatically get better, but you do gather the skills to be able to improve it.

Milon9531 · 2019-07-05T13:25:22+00:00

Life always goes in cycles my friend. Think of winters and springs, sometimes you have everything going for you and sometimes you think "How can this be happening to me?". If it goes better from now on depends on the actions you take today (and a bit of luck we are not gonna lie). Just focus on eating healthy, workout, have healthy habits like reading, listening to insightful podcasts, going outdoors, learning useful skills, and improving your financial game. Working on that will give you the best odds but life is always unpredictable. You have to worry about the things you can control. I'd suggest learning stoic philosophy to help you deal with those downs in life.

Hope it helped

SemperPrimus · 2019-07-05T13:58:23+00:00

If you put in the work, yes. If you dont it will likely get worse

Andrew54321 · 2019-07-05T14:33:09+00:00

Yep.

Life tests first then lessons come later.

thrwy75479 · 2019-07-05T20:01:54+00:00

This whole year was a metaforical combination of jabs and uppercuts to my mouth.

You were probably getting these before but didn't notice. It will continue throughout your life.

Watch some nature documentaries. You'll realize all living things are continuously tested to see if they're fit for survival. A lot of animals don't even get to adolescence or adulthood in human terms.

Is this good or bad? It's neither. It's natural.

mantiss87 · 2019-07-05T23:35:01+00:00

Every year should be a learning experience, if i found myself fucking up a lot one year id try and focus on how to do better the next. Roll with the punches.

Title	Does life get better as you grow?
Author	AbandonedSoldier
Upvotes	6
Comments	18
Date	July 5, 2019 10:21 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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