Does Shit Test mean interest?

ZeroSixNiner · 2018-10-07T22:16:07+00:00

It means potential interest. You fail, interest withers. You pass, and interest continues to the next shit test. It never ends. Ever.

mrpthrowa · 2018-10-07T20:14:03+00:00

Yes.

ba77ab · 2018-10-07T22:57:20+00:00

Testing the water. Interest only if you pass.

OfficerWade · 2018-10-08T01:46:49+00:00

The flip side is shit testing disturbs the ongoing communication and blocks you from entering her sex dungeon.

All you have to do is say something that means you can stay or go but either way it’s your life and you will please yourself.

I’ve seen myself frustrated over a shit test only to realize my intent was to fuck this girl I just wasn’t being honest with myself which led to frustration. Nice guys for example and covert contracts is the dynamic of doing things for people but under lying all this guilt is a trip to the bed room. You scratch my back and I’ll scratch yours.

The bottom line is you have to do things to please yourself. Even if it means taking a girl on a date as platonic friends do, just be aware of yourself when you do it,

TopofToronto · 2018-10-07T20:36:25+00:00

No.

Example how I failed a shit test. To make a long story short. The relationship sort of plateaued, we were doing the same thing every weekend. I tried to interest her in doing small sort of stuff that did not cost a lot of money she would reject it, once dragged her to taking photos but she was so childish and made it unenjoyably that I did not get any photos that I could use and ended up having a fight. So I stopped suggesting things to do But I still loved her, just gave up on trying to change things.

Then she called me out of the blue and said she thinks we should end things and see other people . I was hurt but did not tell her, thought that I had read the relationship all wrong. But she was and adult and could make those decisions so I agreed.

Still talked on the phone every night and about 4 days after the break up to lament that she is afraid she missed "her time" that she will never meet her "true love" . And that was the hill that my love for her died.

She did comeback -- in this sudo relationship sort of thing where I would drop by on the week-end and she was the hole I used to fuck and not listen to anything she had to say . but that was all it was .

Psychological_Radish · 2018-10-08T16:07:23+00:00

I have a female friend who is pretty much a soon-to-be orbiter of me.

This is a contradiction. If she's a friend, then by definition you probably lost your chance (if you ever had one).

Also shit testing doesn't necessarily indicate sexual interest.

Title	Does Shit Test mean interest?
Author	bondbandito
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	October 7, 2018 8:11 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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