As a woman, it is relatively easy to demonstrate value (looks). As a man however, the analogy with a jihab has been made, looks don't mean as much.

Furthermore, men have to approach.

I would like to create a shortlist of ways for (single) men to demonstrate value. By single I mean preselection is not an option (although it is a very good way of demonstrating value).

My situation: I feel like 'once women are attracted to me(see me as higher SMV)' I have no problem with acting red pill, it's getting there (being perceived as higher value) which (to me) is very difficult.