I want to talk about how difficult it is to implement red pill strategies when you suffer from Erectile Dysfunction (ED). I am now cursed with this shitty condition (and I'm just 30!), and it has damaged my capacity to keep a "red pill behaviour". Some of the main problems:

  • Spinning plates is nearly impossible: even though I'm decent value otherwise, I know how many failures I had in bed, and that is the #1 reason I feel afraid to escalate and bring girls to my place. It can be very embarrassing. You don't want to get laid with a different girl everyday to go through this embarrassing situation all over again. If you want to have good sex, it is just easier after you build some intimacy and comfort with one girl.

  • Hard to apply dread: how to make your girl think you can leave her for other women when you can barely fuck her?

Anyways. I apologise for the vent. It is frustrating to see that all my efforts to improve myself have brought me to a point where I'm much better at seducing women, but on the other hand I now see myself with a big wall in front of me preventing me from getting laid. But the main reason why I'm posting this is that I would like to hear from other guys with ED (specially younger guys) if they are having any success with red pill strategies. Honestly it's a shame that ED is such a taboo topic when at least 5-10% of men suffer from it to various degrees.

Also, this is one of the points where I question TRP: are these strategies really useful for most men, or just apply to some? Here I'm talking about ED, but I bet that other men in other situations also may find difficulties due to specific circumstances. The community has to be aware of this and understand that the best sexual strategy will be different for each man.

(And don't tell me "it's all in my mind", research shows that around 50% of cases have some physical cause - in my case, I notice that even masturbating I'm not 100% hard as I used to be. Also, there's no proven connection between ED and porn - for some reason Reddit users seem to believe in these theories all too easily.)