Have an ex from 3 years ago that was great. I worked my ass off to get the level I was at career wise. Met her on the way up. She was everything you’d want as a red pilled man. Submissive. Only had 2 other relationships. Knew that I had options, so did her best not to upset me. She played her role as a woman extremely well.

We dated for 3 years. Talked marriage and kids. But then we split up over a petty argument. I went no contact after that despite her phone calls and letters wanting to get back together.

She started dating another guy 6 months after. This dude was in her grad school. Anyways she’s been dating him for like two years but has been messaging me throughout their relationship. I usually do not respond or keep it real short. Lately, her messages have been about our relationship and nostalgic. So I figure she’s showing interest. I show a little back and send her a song that I really enjoyed and thought she might like. She replies with how much she liked it and some more banter.

As a guitar player I’m listening to the guitars, less the lyrics. But the lyrics were kinda lovey dovey in this song. Two weeks go by and she messaged me asking “Why Did you send me that song. For real.”

I’ve had quite a few plates in the past 3 years and never connected with them. Have regretted letting this relationship fall apart. Do I use this as a way back in?