Expressing masculinity

__TheDon__ · 2019-05-26T00:04:31+00:00

Being assertive. Don’t get involved in drama. No gossiping. Being confident and owning your shit whatever it may be. If it’s a beat up car, bad hairline, or just being overweight. Take full control of your life

Kalikoenig · 2019-05-26T02:03:38+00:00

1) Don't hide the fact you are a sexual creature. Sexual desire should not be a hidden secret. This is most men's first mistake.

2) Call people out if they say or do something disrespectful. For example, if someone is 20 minutes late without letting you know, calmly tell them that you expect them to give you a heads up next time. Don't need to be aggressive, a dick, or bitter about it, but a calm statement followed by not dwelling on it and having a good time is usually enough if it's the first time they've done something. No one respects a person who lets things slide, bends over and takes it. If your best friend was super late, wouldn't you call him out on it? Then why do most men let this slide with women?

Hsnbrg501 · 2019-05-26T03:06:40+00:00

Being assertive, taking the lead, owning up to your mistakes and learning from them, having a good workout routine based around weight training, being fiscally responsible, being impeccable in your word, being a good role model, etc.

patacsiipse · 2019-05-26T06:43:32+00:00

Remain calm in situations where other lose their mind

[deleted] · 2019-05-26T02:32:37+00:00

Being assertive, confident, and not sugarcoating or putting a facade.

Chadster113 · 2019-05-26T00:49:39+00:00

Having a genuine direction/purpose in life

AceMav21 · 2019-05-26T01:33:47+00:00

Buy a super sport motorcycle and have fun with it.

Philosothink · 2019-05-26T02:24:32+00:00

Watch joe Rogan for about 3 months with a touch of jocko

prrraveen · 2019-05-26T03:02:20+00:00

I had this question six months ago when I discovered redpill. I improved few things that makes me feel more manly. * Lifting, you already know this. Read the the sidebar to do it in right way. Set goals here. Mine are 2x(body weight) on squats. 2.5x on deads, 1x overhead press, 1.5x bench. * beared is very masculine if you can grow one. * clothing, I started to put big heavy boots and dark raw denim. Its make me feel strong. * doing hard things in all compartments of life. * always be aware of frame and control it.

ShantiMo · 2019-05-26T07:13:28+00:00

Stoicism. Teaching yourself to be emotionally detached, not to never engage with emotion but to do so when YOU decide, when it serves.

storinoranges · 2019-05-26T01:30:56+00:00

Being ballborn, eight-town, going out to eat at restaurants, knowing how to fix things like cars or air conditioners, learn to chop wood, try hunting or boating, and like you said lifting, don’t gossip, try to follow the 7 virtues

uptimex · 2019-05-26T04:57:57+00:00

IDGAF, in my opinion can give you that. I couldn't express anything untill I learnt the "NEXT.." attitude. In social situations you are not an action hero, if you are not getting satisfying results, change the scene/girl/plate/wing/method. What will it give you? Social intuition as it comes only when you have enaugh comparison and comparison comes to you when you change situations quickly. I am not saying about escaping but when your stress level rises you brain won't get enaugh oxygen to give you goos ideas.

EDIT: honesty and authenticity, for example, if you are shy, approach a girl and say "You know I am extremely shy, but couldn't just pass you..". It was just an example, but the attitude should be "I am what I am, if you accept it it is good, if you don't...next".

Thotamus_Prime · 2019-05-26T06:18:27+00:00

Being the biggest cunt in the room is a good start.

Just respecting yourself as well. Something that is very powerful is leaving a situation when it no longer suites you.

Show up to a party, if it's shit, leave within the first 30 minutes, or any social event really. Once you're over it just leave rather than trying to appease the people there.

bigdaddypapadad · 2019-05-26T00:56:54+00:00

Flash your nuts

tony8832 · 2019-05-26T02:32:02+00:00

Hold frame and down give a fuck

Terdmuffin · 2019-05-26T04:37:35+00:00

Having a beard.

goomerall3 · 2019-05-26T09:43:26+00:00

Showing your dick in public

Title	Expressing masculinity
Author	Aymane221
Upvotes	73
Comments	28
Date	May 25, 2019 11:54 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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