I understand the concept that have a purpose in your life and everything else is secondary.

Call me old school but I think having a great partner in life to mother your children is also very very important (at least to me). Plus, i don't like reading on RP that just be successful and things will happen (lift and get rich).

I want to find/attract and keep a good girl (yes they exist; no, not unicorns but good girls IMHO) to LTR in my life. So how do you separate this need so that it doesn't manifest as "oneitis" or the mood swings you get when you don't have someone in your life? Or getting over the tediousness of attracting a quality girl, courting her, and then in the end it may or may not work out. Then you start over.