Feel lost

vazeline200 · 2021-01-09T11:03:05+00:00

Hey bro. I been there. I am there. If you can go to therapy regularly do so.

Secondly most businesses fail so the best thing you can do here is to start business after business until one succeeds. Watch some Dragon’s den and Shark tank to get an idea of the type of businesses people are starting out there. Read the Forbes 30 under 30 list from different continents and different years. See what they did. Understand that it’s not so much about the idea but the execution but a lil bit of inspiration doesn’t hurt.

Start something. Anything. Expect it to fail but the lessons you will learn will be invaluable. Also don’t give up your day job or neglect school. Those are very important. Your next idea could come from your day job.

For now start out by writing down problems no matter how small you notice everyday and how you could possibly solve them through a business. Also write down ways of making other people’s lives easier or more convenient or even your own. Don’t focus too much on these fake gurus and scams online telling you how to build a business. Just start. You’ll learn as you go along.

Right now I’m going to design my company logo. I don’t even know how to design a logo (if anyone could help that would be appreciated) but I’m just going to put something together for the sake of starting. I will rebrand later. I will try Canva. After that I will look up what I need to register my business etc. Just start something. You are young. You will make mistakes and learn.

As for working for someone there’s no shame in that. You need to pay the bills and eat . It’s also a good way to build up experience of how a company runs and capital if your job pays you well and is challenging. Forget about the guy at the top. That should be none of your concern. Focus on yourself and your happiness.

AuberyBitoni · 2021-01-09T16:13:48+00:00

It will get better. But stop being autistic and get a grip. You need to start working hard. If you want to change your life, it's you who has to put in the work, no on else is gonna do it for you. Everyday you should work hard, to become the best version of yourself.

Get a healthy lifestyle (Clean diet/workout) Cut out alcohol/drugs/cigarettes.
Stop watching porn/fapping
Get hobbies
Find goals in life
Find something you're passionate about and work hard every day.

I know how you feel, around your age I felt the same way. I had no goals in life, especially career wise. Now I'm back in school, working harder than ever and never have been motivated more.

You said you want to be self employed. How about Real Estates? That's what I'm gonna do once I get my degree. You can be your own boss, start your own company and trust me, it's really interesting studying this field.

Kind-Spite1107 · 2021-01-09T21:57:16+00:00

Thank you all for the advice given. It means alot

MrNeurotypical · 2021-01-10T00:27:16+00:00

Become a cherry farmer. We make more than doctors and lawyers. If you're in Asia farm durians.

allahyardimciol · 2021-01-09T12:21:49+00:00

I was severely depressed until I found my 2 life passions. Everyone needs to find his life mission/destiny/passion. Something you dream about everyday, something you wake up for every morning. I will give you my 2 as an inspiration:

ART

You need a certain amount of art in your life. Schoppenhauer said that the only moment where we can sneak away from the eternal doom of life is, when we consume or produce art. I for myself love aesthetic art and philosophy. I watch art house movies, I read a lot of books and I hear a lot of music which inspires me. I got into producing music (as a hobby) and learning an instrument. Its one way to live out a higher meaning of life instead of nihilism.

Bodybuilding

The mind is important, but the body is equally important. I want to be aesthetic af. I want to be strong, capable, break my own boundaries. Build my meat suit. A life where you are aesthetic/good looking is a very different one than a life where you are ugly. Nietzsches slave/master dichotomy. The slave is ugly, therefore he says that looks dont matter, thats the way he copes. The master on the other hand knows how important looks are and is therefore good looking.

Title	Feel lost
Author	Kind-Spite1107
Upvotes	7
Comments	10
Date	January 9, 2021 10:22 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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