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[–]Vikingcel27 points28 points29 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ever jacked off to weird porn? You'll get over this too.
[–]fds_15 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Only if you stop tho. Seriously people, stop watching porn. It's a form of self cuckery you don't want in your life.
[–]Vikingcel0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I barely watch porn and when I do, I'm very picky. It's either some gorgerous freckly teen masturbating, 'lesbians' or donkeys with mentally handicapped midgets.
[–]btrpb18 points19 points20 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Get the fuck over it. Nobody gives a shit. She certainly doesn't, so why should you?
[–]MrAgamemnon10 points11 points12 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She certainly doesn't
She sure does. She's making a living. By using her services you are helping the gal out. No shame in that.
[–]Vynxe-Vainglory9 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Attachment is suffering. No matter what it is, always get over it; especially yourself.
Get over yourself.
[–]wellhellothere45 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are there other examples of attachment that you can think of. Like when you feel weird about something you said or did and cringe, is that attaching yourself to it too much? Is this why outcome independence is important.
How can you manage outcome independence and being logical?
[–]LondonChad19999 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Lol yesterday I left the club with a whale after snorting blow and getting drunk not being able to drive myself back home. She just sucked me off, and my buddies knew i left with her. It was either go to my bro flat like two gay boys or go and bust a nut. No regrets.
[–]Well_hung_Yakuza3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Haha that's the way to go my man
[–]KingRead9 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ya get over it
[–]1atticusfinch19737 points8 points9 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You have guilt because you actually enjoyed it even though according to society it's wrong. In some circles they call that toxic shame. Look it up and work on it.
[–]Senior Endorsed ContributorFieldLine6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Post-nut clarity after fucking a bar slut doesn't feel much better, it has to do with the conditioning you experienced as a child. Did you come from a particularly conservative/traditional background?
You'll get used to it in any case.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Was she weird looking or something? Or did you grossly overpay?
[–]AyubKhan312 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
It was relatively cheap and she was an average looking female. I just felt weird about it after, as it was my first time experimenting with that sort of off, and maybe because of my upbringing.. after reading some comments in this thread, it did make me reflect the whole scenario in a different way. So I'd like to thank you and everyone for their support, means a lot me
[–]mgtownigga5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
all that disgust is societal conditioning my dude. Millions of men, if not billions, have utilized prostitues since time immemorial. The rich and famous use them incessantly.
What im trying to say is you are experiencing poverty morality and you need to just say fuck it. Sex is sex.
[–]AyubKhan311 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
You're very wise, thank you
[–]Casd124 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I remember my first happy ending massage; it felt great, but post nut clarity made me felt pretty fucked up, I basically felt the same as you. But then I thought about it for 10 minutes and asked myself some shit
Did it feel good? Yeah
Does this damage your health in anyway? No. In fact its good for my health. I feel more relaxed and confident.
So the only reason you feel like shit is basically social conditioning? Yeah.
This is why redpill is so important, it gives you cognitive dissonance to show you the real reality of how things are. You get cognitive dissonance because you felt bad about getting a handy from a chick. I felt pretty bad when a innocent girl cheated on his loving bf. The cognitive dissonance is the same. Nature doesnt dictate morality or ethics, it doesnt care about the process. It sees everything as an means to an end, how you get it and what you feel while getting it is all irrelevant .
[–]suckisuckilongtime4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Next time ask her to finger your butthole
[–]Pusikur5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah i ask for that service all time
[–]rpsheepdog4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sex makes the world go round, some jobs are more overt about it. don't become dependent on that to get your sexual "fix" though. Keep getting better and learning game and you'll have a chick do it for free.
[–]Coslin1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Here's your problem in a nutshell -
I feel like the feeling is going to stick around for a while
Stop. Correct yourself right now and forever. Using your feelings as a guiding point in life is going to get you nowhere. Use your brain. Start correcting your speech and through patterns immediately.
I think this feeling may stick around for awhile.
Then, as soon as you read that and actually take a second and think about what you wrote, you're going to think it's the dumbest thing you've ever written and will delete the contents of this post because you recognize you're overreacting.
TD;DR STOP feeling and START thinking
[–]Westernhagen1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Frankly I don't understand why, if you hired an escort anyway, you didn't put your dick in one of her holes. Was there a steep discount on handjobs or something?
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