Me and this girl I’m into have been chilling frequently over the past week. We fucked once but I couldn’t get fully hard because i was nervous. I really like her and I think she really likes me. I have 3 questions:

  1. should I continue flirting/ trying to make plans with her to keep her interested? Worried too much effort might turn her off.

  2. is it possible that I crave more of a connection or intimacy in order to get my dick hard? Anyone else have this problem?

  3. is it a beta move to decide to take it slow with her in order to fulfill #2?