Hi all...I’m going through a divorce after 13 years of marriage. The last 3 have been sexless. Needless to say I was a complete beta the last couple of years. I’m 41 and I make a pretty good income 350k+ and have started to get back in the game. I have recently started to hook up with a playboy model who’s 28 and would be considered a 10 in most guys eyes . She’s one of those girls that guys buy her everything and all of her past relationships are older rich men (doctor, Goldman Sachs exec) and I would say I fall in that camp.

She has been some of the best sex I ever had and I have been trying to use some of these strategies with success with her. I realize I was being way to responsive early on and she was extremely aggressive at the beginning send constant nude pics FaceTiming me with hot model girlfriend with them all naked in hotel room. She would send me videos of herself masturbating. For a guy who has been married for so long this was Crazy for me and I started to fall for her.

We had a long weekend in San Diego and she got a little crazy and on plane home said she was over it and done. I basically didn’t respond and went dark for a couple days. After she didn’t get the attention she was looking for she started hitting me up again . Ever since then I have backed off completely and only text back when she texts first. I’m short and to the point. Long story short this has all been a long distant relationship and she recently moved to my town. We met up and I helped her with some things for new apparent and we ended up fucking in the backseat of my car.

The next day she wanted me to take her and her friend to Nobu for dinner. I didn’t feel like dropping 1k on them so I bailed the next day.

She heads to Vegas the next weekend and sending me her usual pics and just keeping in touch. I have been very slow to respond just trying to play it cool.

So she ends up texting me the one night that she’s horny and asked if I have any friends in town. I was upset and definitely have oneitis. I responded with yes my friend Bob lives there and he will fuck you and sent his number. She thanks me and two seconds later she texts him and says I’m my friend and what is he doing right now. She says I’m trying to fuck and to come to her hotel. He was like you don’t even know what I look like. She said “I literally don’t care”. He ended up saying he wasn’t comfortable doing that.

I ended up getting pissed (I know beta) and told her I was over it and that she must have no respect for me or herself and I was done.

So I haven’t spoke with her since and she blocked me on snap chat. This was someone that we texted everyday for the last 4 months and got together 4 or 5 times for weekends.

So just trying to figure out the phycology behind her doing that. Was she trying to be the one to do something drastic like that because she felt like I was about to dump her and she wanted to be the one to do it? I was acting cold the last couple days because I was tired of feeling like she was hustling me for fancy dinners and material things.

I know complete pussy for even caring about this shit. Also thinking should I have not even cared that she wants to fuck random friend that she never met or saw? She’s a great fuck and prob could have just kept on fucking her but hard to separate feelings when she’s acting like such a whore. It’s one thing to fuck other guys and not tell me about it but to ask to fuck a friend because she’s horny seems to far.

What’s everyone’s thoughts? Take it easy on me I’m a newbie.