I do jiu jitsu, and ever since I started training I literally lost all my desire to fight. Im 5’5, and when I started training I had this confrontational lil angry nigga attitude.

But ever since training I have become much calmer and realized fighting just isnt worth it. What if I hurt someone and get into horrible legal issues or ruin their life? Or what if they beat my ass and ruin my life? And all this over shit that may seem important at the time but wont be within 20 minutes once I let it go.

But I see some people here say to beat peoples ass to anyone who disrespects you.

How would you handle someone disrespecting you infront of a girl you like, or your family? Are you throwing hands or walking away?