First cold approach and number!!

Archwinger · 2015-10-24T04:00:48+00:00

The mere fact that you actually walked up and managed to string two sentences together without looking like a socially inept retard already puts you ahead of three quarters of guys.

tastymedicine · 2015-10-24T02:29:03+00:00

Prep for an immediate shit tests.

Objective: Setup a date within 10 texts; less is better. After date is confirmed -- stop fucking talking.

First Possible Shit Test One of my early number closes I got a 'who's this' although context was suffice for her to know damn well who I was. Feel into her frame by overly trying to explain something that was obvious.

Second Possible Shit Test You probably will get this one. If you land the the date, she'll flake to see how you react to it. Don't get in your emotions - saying just OK is powerful. Allow her to chase you while maintaining focus on your objective.

You can modify your obj as you see fit but have one nonetheless.

Thesegates · 2015-10-24T02:01:00+00:00

Your first text should be "Hi (first name)." Take it easy on the texting that is where you'll fuck things up if you do. Do some research on the TRP board for different texting game. Don't read just one opinion do some research. Don't suggest adding her on social media, if she brings it up just say, "sure request me." If you even have it. I personally don't and can't fucking stand it. It's orbiter central. Again, these are the areas you will dick things up. In person, it's much harder to dick things up.

Texting should be for logistics only for multiple reasons. Mainly so she doesn't get undeserved attention. It may be necessary to build some rapport. But, however much you want to text her, change it to 1/16th that. You come across as too overzealous, you'll seem like a lost puppy and not the dominant alpha she is craving to tease her. The balance is to do that while also showing interest in her, but not like she's your only option. No emojis. You're the mans, man. Remember that. You're excited in your post (and you deserve to be), she shouldn't know you're this excited.

After you get the initial (if any) rapport built, move to setting up a date. From there, you'll have to take it away or do some research on closing, flirting, amused mastery, A&A, etc etc.

Kolbath · 2015-10-24T01:56:25+00:00

Congratulations!

This is only the beginning.

krustytheclown2 · 2015-10-24T03:12:24+00:00

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LiberatedLibertine · 2015-10-24T04:12:51+00:00

Remember, Rinse and repeat until you have a soft harem

gamefuck · 2015-10-24T04:46:49+00:00

Just remember the goal isn't to get this girl.

The goal is to get better at cold approaching and closing. You've already done the cold approach so you'll find the next time easier etc.

cheeky_throwaway101 · 2015-10-24T05:20:12+00:00

Hey man, how did you do it? Paint the picture for us. I'm not a woman I just wanna know how it all went down. Where was she? How did you open? What did you talk about?

EmDeeEx14 · 2015-10-24T11:40:37+00:00

First text

You-"hey it's (you) Now see...this is a vip number, save this bad boy with care"

Make her laugh and shit just flows

laere · 2015-10-24T13:03:39+00:00

Good for you man. Use that high to fuel more approaches while you have it.

seenoeval · 2015-10-24T15:49:13+00:00

Good for you man, it only gets easier though don't be discouraged if your next one goes down in flames, sometimes riding high off of one leads to crashing on the next, no big deal.

Second, stay out of McDonalds that stuff is all complete shit, if it was just for a coffee, go to a real coffee place, way hotter chicks to number close.

notevenatthestart · 2015-10-24T16:43:33+00:00

it'll be easy for me to fuck this up so I'm asking and open to any advice

Yeah, you didn't come here for advice; you came here to brag. But that's okay. You did good. Keep lifting, keep learning, and remember your outcome independence. She's just a girl and you can always go get another.

alpha-game · 2015-10-24T02:36:35+00:00

best advice i can give: don't rush

let shit simmer for a bit. build suspense. keep her on her toes.

Title	First cold approach and number!!
Author	Jani1157
Upvotes	15
Comments	26
Date	October 24, 2015 1:37 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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