First date at my place?

Cerealpizza · 2019-03-02T10:52:58+00:00

IMO it’s usually fine if you’re interesting and have shit to do at yours, typically means an easy lay too if she’s down to show up to your place on the first date.

BluePillEltonJohn · 2019-03-02T12:00:21+00:00

It’s better if u have activities or cool things to do at ur house so u can use some plausible deniability. Games, cooking, movies

zxcvb7809 · 2019-03-02T11:59:53+00:00

This is the best thing that could happen. Just make sure she has a good time. Like make it an experience and she will be back.

TRP8myfeels · 2019-03-02T12:10:11+00:00

It's good if she agrees, if not do it Public then bring her home laaater

atticusfinch1973 · 2019-03-02T13:13:02+00:00

Good luck getting it to happen unless you already have established extreme sexual tension. And be careful because even suggesting it can come off as creepy.

Second/third date, no problem. My go to third date (if we got to that point) was always cooking dinner at my place and it gave me a clear signal that they were interested or not, and 100% of the time resulted in third date sex.

kvmerxn · 2019-03-02T15:11:24+00:00

Good thing. I’ve had two first dates at my place this week that ended in lays. I just tell them that I’m gonna watch a movie and kill a bottle of wine and they invite themselves. She’s got to have high interest in you for sure tho.

Joeboard · 2019-03-02T15:26:17+00:00

No. Plan a date nearby, escalate and then invite over.

What kind of girl is just going over strange dudes houses off the rip?

cornbread07 · 2019-03-02T17:35:58+00:00

I typically only do those types of dates for women I don't plan to keep in my rotation. For example, if shes like a 5 with a high IL but I'm not really attracted to her, then I'll let her come over and suck my dick. If shes over a 6 then I'll do my normal first date at a bakery and then drinks.

WIA20XX · 2019-03-02T18:25:26+00:00

If she's keen to meet up, and you're sure it's not a robbery set up, it's fine.

But if she is a normal girl, she might offended.
If you don't know that she's normal, that can be hell trying to get her out.

barn3r · 2019-03-02T21:28:19+00:00

9/10 telling them to come over even if you tell them you have something planned will end in them saying no in some fashion. If they say yes, then it’s a easy lay but this is extremely rare.

vandaalen · 2019-03-02T12:56:34+00:00

They will usually not accept.

Title	First date at my place?
Author	richi0003
Upvotes	3
Comments	15
Date	March 2, 2019 10:46 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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