Yesterday I went on my first date ever. I made sure to do a lot of kino: touching legs, brushing abs, holding arms... We first went to a coffeeshop (she sat next to me not in front of me). Then I took her to an isolated place in my car to show her an "amazing sight".

Then in the car she started talking about a time where a guy was trying to kiss her and she would laugh at each attempt, so I told her "so, he tried to do this?" And went for the kiss, but she dodged it and she was confused (==> orbiter).

We spent the whole date talking about random shit and joking around, basically FORD. I would laugh at anything she says and that's why I think I was being too nice. Didn't pay for her stuff tho.

To be honest, I found it awkward to do kino in the car, all I could do was put my hand on her legs or on the shoulder and that's it.

She thinks I'm an orbiter or gay now, right? What could I have done differently? I think I didn't escalate verbally, how to do that? Should I soft next her or ask for second date?

Another question: how do I show her my intentions and hold plausible deniability?