I met a girl at a bar I always go on saturday evening. I talked to her, teased her a bit, joked around and i realised that she was interested in me. Obviously there was alcohol involved so it was really easy to make out with her because she was reaaal horny. She started touching my cock and after a few minutes I went to the toilet and she surprisingly followed me into the men's bathroom. We started making out and i opened her belt but then she suddenly tells me: "I have to pee now." I just left. Well, I didn't fuck her that evening but I could arrange a date on the following Tuesday evening, another bar.

So here starts the actual problem. I just couldn't, let's say "impress" her, and she was so fucking disappointed after the date that the last hour of the "date" was just waiting for the train back home.

At the bar I made out with her and she again touched my cock but she denied everytime I tried to touch her pussy. (The bar was uncrowded 2-3 ppl). We talked and joked around, but most of the time it was a boring conversation (school, work, future). I just didn't know how to "turn her on" with verbal sexual escalation - I wasn't happy anymore just with touching and kissing. After an hour at the bar she told me that I wasn't charming as she expected I am and that I was shy. - Like wtf? She also told me: "Well, now I see that you didn't have that much women in your life that i expected." She was right though, I'm 20yo and only had sex with 2 girls. My attitude was "fake it, till you make it".

At this point I knew that this is not going to end well and i felt very mad but I could manage to hide my emotions from her. We left the bar and made out outside but I was pissed and checked my phone while she kissed me (i know, very bad). She just looked at me: "Are you serious?", she walked away but turned back after few steps (no idea what she was trying to show).

After that, she went home, I went home.

Next morning i get a message from her, again I was just like wtf, why is she texting me after that bad date. She wrote: "Are you still sleeping? :O" 3 hours later I answered with: "No :)"

Now the question, is it over with this girl or is there hope ?

So my problem is that the girl loses interest in me as soon as I meet her on a face to face date but when I approach them at a bar it's always fun.