first ever dinner date

Docbear64 · 2017-07-27T18:28:07+00:00

I like to start out dates with a hug it sets the tone that i'm not scared to touch her . The key to flirting is to steer the conversation , if you let her she'll talk and talk and talk and there will be no air of sexuality to your conversation . It's all about subtlety , and I usually use games ( 21 questions , 2 truths and a lie) as a means to both get comfortable, flirt subtly , and in the right scenario( she playfully slaps you while laughing ) and hell even if you get really into telling her a story it can be a great excuse to touch her.

Also sometimes It's good to just fuck the bullshit, if you want to kiss her and she's giving you the eyes , or looks like she's awkwardly standing waiting for SOMETHING to happen , usually that's a clear sign she ants you to make a move.

More important than anything have fun man . That's the true key if your date stops being fun then it's a waste .

savagedealer · 2017-07-27T18:21:30+00:00

If she likes you she'll make excuses for you by helping out with the dinner convos if you run out of ideas . If shes expecting you to just talk and entertain her the entire time without adding any value back to the date then she isn't worth paying dinner for . Ultimately it's up to you but if she's worth it and stands out I personally don't mind paying .

Renzotl56 · 2017-07-27T18:54:54+00:00

Have fun and joke around at dinner. Enjoy your meal and don't stress it. If you weren't a completely boring slob. She'll want to keep it going. You'll lead the way for an activity afterwards. Something light(so you don't throw up on her) and that's where you pull all the moves and kino and escalation.

Good luck my brotha. Getting some ice cream or frozen yogurt then sitting somewhere quite is usually my go to. Before i lead her to the back of my car.

Hmonte1 · 2017-07-27T21:27:10+00:00

Have something planned for after. Thats almost more important than the dinner imo. Even if it's just a "hey I am stuffed lets take a walk and walk some of this off" or something tonthat effect.

If you can handle your liquor i suggest maybe taking a shot before you go or pounding a beer so you are loosened up but not sloppy. Liquid courage works for me.

Pitchfork51 · 2017-07-29T02:02:27+00:00

Don't forget your id in your bathing suit so that you are sober while she slams sake bombs

Title	first ever dinner date
Author	wartorle
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Date	July 27, 2017 6:05 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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