Found this in askwomen

awkwardtouching · 2016-04-24T18:58:23+00:00

A red-pill guy who has deemed a woman worthy will do some of those things for the right woman, just not all the time. This is a self-loathing post by women who realized they weren't the right woman for a man and took it personally.

JugglingSoManyThings · 2016-04-24T19:15:47+00:00

In case you forgot, or just havent read enough of the sidebar yet; women do not know what they want.

Most women think they're supposed to want a bluepill man, but when they have him their pussy dries right up. They were put through conditioning just like men, and brought up to believe things that arent true too.

nice_and_friendly · 2016-04-24T18:58:18+00:00

men asking women for permission to act like men when trying to attract women.. rolls eyes

JeanValjean197o · 2016-04-24T20:09:46+00:00

So, in other words, these are the kind of guys she dates.

They may be red flags and yet they happen enough that all the men she dates seems to exhibit these traits.

So, that should tell how how successful these guys are (and how stupid she is).

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-04-24T20:37:40+00:00

What do you expect from a Hamster Echo Chamber?

That said, TRP goals will not always be compatible with even RPW goals, let alone the FI.

jab-jab-cross · 2016-04-24T21:56:32+00:00

As your username and empty post history indicates, you're obviously trolling. But I'll answer this question anyway for those who think this kind of list (which is typically real, whether online or directly from the girls' mouth) contradicts TRP.

Remember women have a dualistic strategy (AF;BB) with priority changing with age. As her looks fade, beta hunting season starts. She looks back on her past history of "why all men I date are jerks?" and decide it's time to settle for someone who will be nice and committing.

What you have here is a woman currently in her epiphany phase, looking back on all the men she was attracted to and dated (notice the obvious alpha pattern), finally realizing that she won't get an attractive man with options to commit to her and concocting a list of lack-of-commitment red flags. Of course what she doesn't realize is that the reason all her previous partners acted this way is because from a high SMV flows both attractiveness and lack of pedestalization. In other words, what made them attractive is the same thing that made them reluctant to commit. Concurrently, she will quickly find that men looking to commit to her are unfortunately not very attractive to her. She will resist their advances until her biological urgency or her lack of dating success hits hard, whichever happens first.

Make sure you read Rollo's preventive medicine to get an awareness of how the hamster changes with age. It's important to adjust your game to each woman's stage in life and to what you're after (ONS, fuck-buddy or LTR).

Docbear64 · 2016-04-24T19:15:37+00:00

Red flags sure if you treat a chick like that are you really considering dating her seriously ? Also commitment is earned, if she hasn't done something to make me want to take her to the movies or be sweet to her sometimes clearly she has no more merit than being a fuck buddy. Therefore she was nexted.

redpillnexus · 2016-04-24T20:01:45+00:00

They have no clue what a "red flag" even is. Everything they described is exactly how they behave themselves. They'll say they don't like this one second, then they'll chase after that exact Chad the next.

mrpoopistan · 2016-04-25T00:46:26+00:00

"he's not going to sit on his ass and give you time to fall in love with someone else"

This one's the real tell.

The classic "pursue me and treat me like a princess or I'll throw a hissy fit" strategy.

[deleted] · 2016-05-10T18:11:37+00:00

They only want to see you when it is convenient for them. - When have you ever known a woman to do anything for a man that is inconvenient for them, unless it was your mother?

They never make any future plans with/for you. I'm talking about 1/2 weeks in advance for simple plans like going to a movie or a concert. - Nothing I've ever seen on TRP prohibits or discourages making plans 3-4 days in advance, on rare occasions (how often does any plan out social interaction that far in advance anyway?).

When they take you to places that are really out of the way so they won't run into anyone they know. - This is cheating behavior, not plate-spinning behavior; take an IDGAF attitude regarding "if people I know see me with a girl". Honest non-exclusivity is simple, and fosters both abundance mentality in you and competition anxiety in women.

A hesitation to discuss their life beyond small talk. Also will not ask you questions beyond that realm. - Keeping an element of privacy and mystery is entirely different from spilling out your entire life-story; TRP teaches you not to disclose any more than you feel is necessary, and nothing if the situation warrants because if it's a purely physical, short-term relationship you want, why would you share that other shit? As for asking questions, I think everyone on here has seen the advice to ask selective questions and let her yammer on about herself (i.e. women's favorite pastime).

Playing hot and cold. Making you wait, not replying to messages etc. A guy who wants you and genuinely likes you will let you know, he's not going to sit on his ass and give you time to fall in love with someone else. - No guy is beholden to respond to text messages at any speed other than that which he damn well pleases. That's not playing hot and cold, it's not "playing" at all, it's being free do to whatever the hell you want and acting accordingly. How likely is it that her text messages ever require an immediate response?

Not being sweet to you. There are just certain things happen in relationships - people are thoughtful, they give you hugs, kiss your forehead, try to make an effort to make you happy and comfortable, they send you sweet goodnight messages even when there is no chance they'll see you etc. Not seeing those things is my personal red flag. - Then she wants something guys aren't giving her. Save that crap for an LTR, if you ever end up in one, or for when a plate you actually care about is having a tough time and needs comfort (if you genuinely desire to do so). Women are emotional, sometimes they need that stuff, but that doesn't mean that you need to be the one to give it to them.

Catdick66 · 2016-04-24T19:23:09+00:00

Women are fucking stupid and have no idea what they want. Be an alpha and tell them what they want and they will follow like the children they are.

The fact you had to get an opinion is mind boggling, maybe the TRP isnt for you, acting like a beta bitch boy.

thor_away92 · 2016-04-24T21:55:48+00:00

You missed the biggest element.

They're still fucking with these kinds of men.

Title	Found this in askwomen
Author	Trol889
Upvotes	2
Comments	13
Date	April 24, 2016 6:55 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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