So last night I got a friend req from a girl I was crazy about when I was like 17. (29 now..) I was a young immature bp virgin. She was the first girl I ever really hooked up with, never had sex tho. One night at a party we were about to, but i was too drunk to get hard..

Shortly after, at another party I caught her making out with a good friend of mine in a bedroom. Altgough we wernt dating, i was pissed and stopped talking to her..

She found out I was dating someone about 6mo later or so and messaged me askin about my relationship, if i had sex with her, etc. I told her I did and we kinda stopped talking again.

Years went by, she met some dude and moved to a flyover state with him..

She sent me a friend req maybe a year or two ago, i accepted and ended up unfriending shortly after.

Now last night she send me another friend req. I looked at her profile, it seems she is visiting the area in a week to see family... it also seems that she is single and no longer with the guy she moved out there with..

Coincidence she friend req me right before visiting?? I suspect she is toying around with the idea of possibly messaging me saying she will be in the area.. but who knows, maybe not.

Should I continue to just ignore? Should I accept the request? Wait for her to message me or should I say something like hey how have you been?

Sad fact is im in a dry spell. Not spinning any plates, work has consumed my entire life as of recently and I could really use an easy lay.