See my first thread here on my page for history on the girl I'd been gaming. Had an encounter this weekend where I tried to do a spur of the moment meet up with the girl which was a bad idea. She said "already have plans :(" which I felt was a shit test even if it was true. I simply said "not my problem" when I meant to say "your loss". Didn't hear back. My boss who has a high partner count but exhibits beta behavior and another person I trust tried to shame me into apologizing but I didn't. I simply told her I didn't pick the right words.

So she reiterates and says I had plans, and "I never assumed you were mad". I say, alright, let's catch up this week then. Nothing. So, I called her out with a reference to a special which we watched on our last date. She got slightly offended, goes "sorry I'm a busy girl" which is bullshit, (was posting pics of her having dinner with her bff guy friend the night prior, but you can't find time to text me? Yeah, okay. The bff is a red flag anyway) and I told her I want an answer if she's serious.

So this is what I get.

"I just dont even know if we have anything in common. I feel like our conversation in person is not as easy as it is over text. And I'm not sure if i feel anything when we kiss. Not sure if I feel anything anymore? Which is ridiculous because you are sweet and nice and handsome."

She's always complimented me on my appearance which shows I've been out of her league and gave her those tingles, but fizzled them out. Not enough feelz. She even acknowledges her own cognitive dissonance. The rest is all beta, beta, beta. Hero your tingle levels are too low. Do you have any alpha, or fux?

I really haven't been sure to treat it as a shit test or fitness test. I tried some comfort and some a&a which seemed to help but not much. Is there any point treating it like anything or just bail? She just kept rehashing the "not sure about the kiss" and conversational skills. Which the latter is fair, as I'm not completely congruent between text and person but it's not because I'm a social retard, I was a little anxious on both dates mainly from my Desire to do well which is counterintuitive. I got some phenibut in the meantime and I feel and behave like a golden god with it but I haven't had a chance to meet her since. Now this. The main thing is I don't want to step into her frame. I already told her if she's not feeling it, I'll leave. I AM willing to walk away but I think I need to demonstrate it more and I'm not sure if i can squeeze in some dread game too. I do believe this can be turned around, not sure if it's worth my time though. Chances are as I continue to improve my smv and meet other girls she will come sniffing back around.

I'm not going to try and reason with her. I've been reading the way of the superior man and my main takeaway is that as Deida says, their emotions reflect their current feeling state in the relationship which is why you see so many posts in TRP about being "unhaaaaappy". Which is why I'm trying to deflect but she keeps rehashing the same points. I told her she can at least talk to me or meet me again, but I'm wary of thisnstepping into her frame even if I can reignite some attraction physically or otherwise. Should I just call it off and tell her "goodbye and good luck"?