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Lel. If she wasn't a mom it'd be well worth it
/r/askTRP08/08/17 09:24 PM
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It was another aspect I let go because I liked her and I honestly don't mind kids since I'm not ready for my own yet. Funny thing is I swore off single moms after my very first gf who had a toddler, but again, thought this one was "different".
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:56 PM
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Is that the goto prescription around here? Not really...had another girl stroke off my champ flute couple days ago which is what I should've been doing from the beginning. Already been down the oneitis path my friend, and this girl doesn't even come close to how that one affected me.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 05:26 PM
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You called it.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:55 PM
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That's always what it is, isn't it? It could also be nostalgia, they've been friends for 8 years at least so even if he's got a shrimp dick and cock breath, that little mix might be all she needs. Yeah see, if it wasn't for her orbiters she almost would've been perfect. I sensed something off with them initially and I let it slide because, hey, "they can't all be like that " and as a 30 y/o single mom you'd think the wall would be hitting a little harder. But i guess that's the lesson huh? Never…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:31 PM
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Yeah, good point. I am getting a little bit of sunk cost fallacy. The funny thing is I just can't figure out the why. Not that i need to, but it makes you wonder. Any past girls with sketchy male friends have always had something over me. I'm 6'1", muscular, making good money, am a musician, got good friends and hobbies, basically everything else in my life is in order. My mind can't rationalize how a cheddar mouth goblin looking manlet could be "sexually exciting" for her, unless it was the she…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:12 PM
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Like I said, I actually enjoy her company beyond the idea of her trying to pull some shifty shit, especially if she thinks I'm that dumb. That's my sticking point right now. Little bit of my ego. But she also keeps me very satisfied sexually. I don't like the "how" or the "why" but I'm wondering if first infraction is really worth axing what is otherwise a decent relationship. Especially as they never met that night: gay balls got mad at her initiating and they stopped talking. To me, it would b…
/r/askTRP08/08/17 04:02 PM
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How do you figure? I'm trying to decide whether or not I care enough to maintain it for what I'm getting out of it...feels aren't a consideration here. I don't consider the dude a "threat" anymore but obviously at one point in time she was OK with some "it just happened" circumstances. That is the question if I should be ruthless with that as the deal breaker.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 03:53 PM
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The guy lives 2 hours away, while it's not like it couldn't happen it's not practical at best seeing how she's been spending all her free time with me now. The log I found was about 5 months in. I obviously would be aware/not cool with her meeting him from this point on, and she doesn't know I know even though I told her I wasn't cool with her friends back then. I guess in my mind it's a matter of just treating her more like a plate or walking out entirely.
/r/askTRP08/08/17 03:51 PM
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Not even worth letting it crash and burn, eh?
/r/askTRP08/08/17 03:41 PM
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Lol.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 11:52 PM
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What ones do you see beside the obvious?
/r/askTRP18/06/17 11:14 PM
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Yeah. What I should've done from the beginning. If I get another go this is what I will do, if not I need to seriously reframe how I handle my relationships
/r/askTRP18/06/17 07:24 PM
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Good way of looking at it.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 06:32 PM
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Yeah. I should've waited til the 6 month mark at least. Just something to learn going forward
/r/askTRP06/06/17 09:21 PM
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Yeah, good point. I made excuses for a plate of mine before, and my rationale looking it over here is "they're coworkers/unattractive/long time friends". But it's about the dynamics more than the connection itself.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 06:43 PM
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I don't know how you can make these accusations. How do you figure it's about self worth? Is it wrong that I want a clean exit? As I said in my original post I agreed to exclusivity when I really didn't want to but I figured I would give it a try. No, I don't necessarily "need" someone to be there if things go sour, but surely it's the more rational option? Why make things harder on myself? Reverse it, if I said I didn't want to pursue other options people would be saying I have oneitis. I see i…
/r/askTRP06/06/17 06:41 PM
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Nice attempt at insulting me. Isn't that the point of this place? Abundance, spin plates, don't get committed/overly invested unless it's someone you've strongly vetted. And most of all, awalt. I see some behaviors that I'm not cool with and have seen in other females where they branch swing on the dude. The caveat is where the line is drawn. You'd let your ltr do whatever all willy nilly? There's a man who doesn't respect himself. There's no horror, I want options. Been in a similar scenario be…
/r/askTRP06/06/17 04:30 PM
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Most of these weren't present when I agreed to it. I still tried to secure stuff on the side 2 to 3 months in anyway but dropped it for various reasons. Brutal but good points. I will do what I must.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 11:24 AM
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Appreciate the insight. I felt that was inappropriate but you expressed it better than I could. Are you suggesting I overtly tell her I'm going to pursue other women or dread game her?
/r/askTRP06/06/17 11:18 AM
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A lift chick might get impressed or turned on by you slugging around huge weight, but for the most part yep they won't care unless you look the part. The number itself doesn't mean anything to them
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 07:44 PM
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No need really, I am for them with the right use and judicious user mindset. If they work for you, go right ahead. If you have a good handle on yourself they can be helpful and open your mind in positive ways. But for someone with shaky frame or worldviews it can be easy to slip off the slope into addiction, abuse, and depression. However, my experience is no more opinion than someone saying it does X positive things. It's no different than someone developing cirrhosis from alcohol. The side eff…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 04:58 PM
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People's perception is very malleable. It's not very common but those with predisposition to mental illness can have very negative reactions to psychedelics. Bad trips can also cause people to overreact, it's not so much the drug as the altered judgment that could cause someone danger. I have a schizophrenic in the family and never had any bad reactions to mushrooms, weed, but had a horrific experience and consistent negative reactions to lsd. I'm still recovering almost a year later, and my tac…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 04:23 PM
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Stop thinking of yourself as an insecure faggot, to start
/r/askTRP15/08/16 09:07 PM
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I used to think these things. The problem is right now thinking or having someone tell you there's more out there that can fulfill you and make you feel even better, doesn't feel correct to you. It feels false or that something can never measure up. That things will never improve. All those things are wrong. I was a mess and in a depressive funk 5 years ago, let myself go physically, mentally and had nothing going for me of value. I had long hair, an unkempt beard, chubby fat and was a janitor. …
/r/askTRP14/08/16 12:31 AM
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Tesla may have been very masculine but he sure as shit wasn't slaying it. Wasn't he a lifetime virgin? Society was also completely different back then and bodybuilders weren't anywhere near the norm or frequent. This really is just a poor excuse. Bruce Lee often said there are no limits, only plateaus. Why would any man choose mediocrity in one discipline of himself when he can excel there? Be the best version of yourself in all areas of your life. As another poster said most of these examples h…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 12:52 PM
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Please, if you're in true Adonis shape the women will approach and escalate with you. I've seen it first hand plenty of times with super in shape friends of mine. They can barely contain themselves in public venues where they have to "behave". Let alone a bar. You underestimate tingles and thirsty women. So by being attractive you're already coming from an abundant place since you don't need to work for it as much. Yes, a spergy fit guy will probably get nowhere but if you're in great shape and …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 03:09 PM
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I don't think you're really getting me mister saltine cracker. Do you speak english as your first language? I'm not saying act feminine around women. I'm not stupid, it kills attraction. But if you really think playing with an animal for fun is a "-1" action you're either analyzing too hard or associating with the wrong females. You should just do what the fuck you want and not care what anyone, let alone a female, thinks. I'm not gonna take the time to jump out of my head like oh shit, I just p…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 04:20 PM
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Women own dogs too. You really think owning pets is beta? Your argument is the same as the "Hitler ate sugar fallacy". Does the person make the action bad? No. You sound like one of those guys who think anything less than 100% stereotypical male action is beta or weak, instead you're probably one of those rigid douches that stands robotic and has no sense of amusement. You know what else used to be masculine? Smoking. Plenty of betas and women smoke and addictive behavior is beta. Same how tatto…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 04:07 PM
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Haha what. Yeah, don't pet animals or do what you want because a woman might disapprove. Maybe she's looking at you with disgust because it's how she feels about you as a man. Half the time any time I or someone else was affectionate with am animal or their own, it melted the immediate women if they found you attractive. Some of the stuff on this sub is getting retarded.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 02:59 PM
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I'm 6'1 and built like a lean tank and I haven't gotten any action since last august. confidence matters a bit more than stats. in your mind I should be killing it but I'm currently not. yes, you are at a slight disadvantage but don't forget tall or big guys can be beta and repulse women too
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:07 PM
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She's gonna trickle truth you how she fucked or fucked around with a guy or guys at the party. Abandon ship while you can
/r/askTRP20/07/16 01:01 AM
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This is what we call cognitive dissonance. You either consciously or subconciously recognize feelings why you don't like being around this person, yet you do. That is why you are drained. It'd be like forcing yourself to work a job you had no interest in or watch a movie that bored you to death but you sat through it anyway. Not being true to your core is the message. identify what and why and make the change.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 01:07 PM
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Dirty beta knight saw my undergarments. Execute him
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 01:01 PM
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how can you be dominant in bed with no arms? no offense to your friend. the mental picture is just kind of hilarious of an armless dude slapping into some chick's ass repeatedly
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 10:20 PM
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Having sex with prostitutes causes self doubt? Projecting much? You must have subconcious self doubt or confidence issues. I do agree against your anti instant gratification theme. Too many come here and get somewhat in shape and somewhat confident and say WOMEN ARE JUST WHORES I CAN'T GET SUCCESS. "Paying for sex is positive reinforcement of the belief that you can't get the same lays without it, which will lead to these perceptions actualizing themselves in future behavior". You're literally t…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 02:26 PM
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well it definitely happens. I had oneitis for a girl that clicked all my triggers visually but was mentally stimulating as well. got out of the friend zone with her at least but it didn't last. shame. but that's what abundance is for.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 08:27 PM
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There might be something to this honestly but I'm not sure it rates in a black and white scale of attractiveness. There's been 7s and 8s I've hurfdurfed and gone full beta with due to underlying qualities thinking I have a chance with them and their personalities. Meanwhile there's a superhot 9 MILF personal trainer I work with that I couldn't give two fucks about. subconsciously I feel above her for some reason and I've kept the frame set that way. we're always flirtatious and fun in our talks …
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 05:59 PM
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I considered it for a while if I wasn't going to lose mine naturally. I didn't lose it until 24 so don't feel bad. I lost mine to an 18 year old overweight single mother. Yeah. Not the best first. To be honest I almost wish I had went to strip clubs/seen escorts in my unsure phase from late teens early 20s. I would've saved myself a LOT of time and confusion. One, it desensitizes you to sex in a good way. You realize women have their own sexuality and it's not something to be shamed or afraid of…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 07:01 PM
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The real solution is to adapt to your own self. When I first started lifting I lifted 5 to 6 days a week. 3 by 10 every muscle group each day with a half hour to an hour of cardio. I didn't build any muscle and didn't burn any fat. I did this for 3 months before finally changing my routine. I've been on a 3 day program almost 2 years since and I do cardio maybe once or twice a week. I'm 25 pounds lighter than when I had that plateau with a hell of a lot more muscle. Recovery time is necessary to…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 09:04 PM
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Yeah, I'm not as bad looking as it sounds but 12% is a world of difference. I won't stop til I get there. I do intermittent fasting sixteen hours, heavy lifting and HIIT. I was 240 in January. I eat mainly lean proteins, chicken and tuna but don't count my calories. I'll definitely be ready by next summer but can always use improvements
/r/askTRP16/10/15 10:12 PM
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Not yet, but about three months I will be. Shooting for 12%. According to my electronic scale I'm 25%..mainly in my quads bit of a stomach but everything else is built well. I've been told I'm in great shape by young skinny girls. This fwb was like 208 but she's tall and got good ass + tits. So I will be exceeding her quite a bit.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 08:16 PM
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Thank you, that's the idea. The day we hung out she was visibly horny, talking about sex, she shoved her ass into my crotch and pushed me onto the bed with it before we went out for a walk (this is before I reminded her I had the show.) I probably should've skipped it and just fucked her. Contrast to barbers thoughts, she is sexually attracted (I'm 6'1", 215 well built with good aesthetics, and in the past she has said im everything she wants.) I just keep failing to close and have to recover my…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 06:05 PM
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Not trying to negotiate it, she has been legitimately attracted and wet for me but my own inexperience and dumb decisions have bit me in the ass. I'm a solid 2-3 smv points above her. She has blown me though, swallowed and all. Also tried friendzoning me before and said no back in May. She started pursuing me in July so we've only got physical in the past 3 months. I've fingered her plenty and done dry shit but I am inexperienced, I've been working thru it. We never started as friends, I just we…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 05:43 PM
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"Don't want to hurt them". You got a long way to go son. A girl would never pay you the same consideration
/r/askTRP09/10/15 07:24 PM
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"Never be afraid to lose her". If you can't hold by this statement thru any conversation, encounter, day on your own, boredom, you're doing it wrong. Day 2 doesn't matter, you're looking at it logically, women operate on feels. I've had many a slut self deprecate and tell me they're dead inside or shitty people. If you wish to continue dont worry about her emotions; let her flow around you. Or cut and run.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 03:18 PM
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Thinking of it too mechanically bro.
/r/askTRP27/09/15 02:54 PM
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Could do but yea, little much for my taste.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 03:36 PM
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She had posted a thing on my timeline the night before, we built up a pretty good rapport friday night before the Saturday night dance. Case of the tingles?
/r/askTRP24/09/15 03:35 PM
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I do at least feel like I have the proper DGAF mindset to get other girls now. I "have" a soft plate that whines about being lonely and constantly invites me out and is partially attracted, but she confessed she's been the plate of this guy with a gf, hamsters responsibility on to him because he didn't tell her until after they had sex.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 04:31 PM
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The blowie she gave up very enthusiastically but she's been kinda starfish during foreplay until I get her really warmed up. I think it's honestly just so many 80/20 interactions with her that's got her put off. I'm 6'1, about 215 built, good aesthetics, and my dick is above 6" so I've got most of the package..
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:59 PM
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Tried to sum up the past two months as best as possible, was my best lead and frankly the head was amazing when I dominated her..hate to see a good sloot go to waste. The sexual encounters were relevant, I feel. I know it's an overblown situation. She also made a lot of effort to see me for a time until I alphasnubbed her
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:48 PM
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Reason was, seven months in I was no longer sure how I felt about her despite I still enjoyed her company and what she had to offer. I waffled when she wanted to see me, not because I had better things going on. Thought I had it in the bag and could just pick up the next day. I don't need the comforts most betas want e.g. good morning good night texts/sleeping together etc., but at least somebody who wants to do something once a week would be nice. I've read no more mr nice guy, book of pook whi…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:50 PM
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Right. I was at my happiest when this girl was after my nuts on a daily basis and I was expending no effort. But after I blew her off, there went that situation. Stoicism says suck it up and move on, I know this, but I refuse to let a potentially recoverable position. I do know I need more positive outlets in life. Women don't complete me, but I'm tired of being that chump that doesn't even have the simple comfort of having a person to bounce off of every now and then.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:23 PM
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In a sense..But you make a good point. I keep looking for that better future but all I see around is unfulfillment. I made a lot of very poor choices this year in general and am still paying for them despite improving my situation. It saps my motivation.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:21 PM
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I used to be a very patient guy but I'm dealing with an 8 month old situation and I'm trying to make up for lost time and inexperience even if I fuck up in the field. I'm 26 now and am simply tired of having to keep playing the headgame aspect. I'm starting to question if I just need to back off and raise my smv a few more points until I get women chasing after me in general. I get a lot of positive attention but I dont have enough options to be truly abundant. I try every day to be outcome inde…
/r/askTRP12/08/15 03:11 PM
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Wasn't that, I just ignored a text when she wanted to hang out as I wasn't sure if I felt like spending time with her anymore. She didn't see the bluenall nor did I complain
/r/askTRP06/08/15 12:12 PM
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Thanks for the suggestions, you're on the same mindset as I as not rewarding bad behavior. I was told by others at the party I ignored her but it was one, my party, and she was not the focus but I did treat her as a main guest. Perhaps it was petty to rebuke her for lying to me Sunday (after I blew her off unannounced, she lied outright about being busy that day and her phone being dead ). But again, just dues I think.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 03:41 PM
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I channel amused mastery almost as second nature now but I still tire of games. They can be very fun..but they're still fucking stupid most of them. I'm not one that likes even small forms of manipulation as hot/cold.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 01:17 PM
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So call out the games and bullshit? At what point do you? Do you treat it like a shit test?
/r/askTRP30/07/15 01:15 PM
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Duly noted..I would think post sex and intense chasing it'd be easier from here. Maybe not.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 11:43 AM
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I've already pulled her in for those before. we've had sex. So I feel this was deliberate on her part to "get back at me" for blowing her off over the weekend.
/r/askTRP30/07/15 11:42 AM
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When she was fiending to see me every day and only stopped when I snubbed her? Okay then
/r/askTRP29/07/15 11:32 AM
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Generally agree with that. So do you disagree with his stance? What would you do in my position?
/r/askTRP28/07/15 07:40 PM
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Is this more for him or me?
/r/askTRP28/07/15 06:33 PM
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True, copper fox. I forget about outcome independence sometimes..I preach it a lot. I just didn't know if it's dumb to go completely silent when I can foster The Feelz for her up to my birthday. The last time we were out she looked like she was borderline in love with me.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 03:34 PM
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No, we did. It's just that she had been coming at me hardcore since. It wasn't bad, I just wasn't fully invested during it. I found myself asking why am I doing this during the act. I put myself thru a lot of bullshit (drug experimentation, etc) not directly because of her but partially a catalyst. So it was kind of "all that for this?" It was also partially a realization that sex will not give me the fulfillment I'm searching for in life.
/r/askTRP28/07/15 03:21 PM
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Playing music. Think of Beatle mania and the sheer frenzy of women at the time despite their effeminate behaviors. Have stand up comics really ever had as intense a following or groupies as musicians do?
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 04:25 PM
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They want to fuck that status out of you, that's how it goes, how it always goes. Might as well enjoy it! Feels before reals as they say, but a more masculine performance art might engage more tingle than stand up comedy for instance.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 02:28 PM
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It's almost impossible to not give a fuck about anything but reprioritizing what you do is. Reprogramming like that can be hard short of massive life changes or ego death (protip: psilocybin). Mark Manson has a good article on not giving a fuck that's a half decent pointer to the right perspective. Just cause you were raised a certain way doesn't mean you can't change it. Don't care about how you're perceived. Say the thoughts that come to your mind, don't worry about if you'll offend someone or…
/r/askTRP13/07/15 12:36 PM
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When you don't care which of the two people think you are. They will pick up on it. Trust me.
/r/askTRP11/07/15 05:14 PM
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I've always avoided it, and agree with your stance. But I view it like walking into a market, sometimes you see a nice cut of meat you wouldn't mind trying. I'm actually in your proposed situation...leaving my old job soon, and there's a new cute chick a tinglin away after my nuts...no time like the present!
/r/askTRP10/07/15 04:52 PM
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What about in cases where the employer doesn't frown upon relationships? I assume still a golden rule, as all it takes is one false rape claim to lay you on your ass for good if she's feeling vindictive.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 04:41 PM
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This is the kinda shit that kills me about society today. It's my goal that when I get jacked I am going to keep my standards and probably bump then up. I'm already a shallow fuck to begin with. Somebody's gotta start undoing this trend of enabling fat people.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 03:26 PM
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Good message, but maybe a better example is required than an extra three reps...
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 06:51 PM
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Losers always whine about their best. winners go home and fuck the prom queen. - Sean Connery. (For real...kind of)
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 11:36 PM
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I appreciate your concern, really I do. But oneitis is formed on the belief of a one or obsession/excess focus on one girl. I don't believe nor have I believed in the former except when I was in my teens. The latter I had the excess focus, which I'm paying for, but I have de-emphasized this girl so much it isn't funny. She keeps coming back. I'm playing the game for what it's worth. She is not the only option in my life.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 10:20 PM
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Eh, I just have really good memory. Met a long time ago, dealt with a lot of bullshit when I still hadn't integrated proper attitudes of TRP, paid for it in a lot of shitty lessons. I cross reference a lot of data against myself and others.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 10:16 PM
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Will do. Worth noting I also initiated it the next not just because of disrespect and to prove I am not at her beck and call, but because frankly I'm tired of her shit from long ago and my old behavior responding to it. Plus seeing her actively praising another dude's looks on facebook in some cringeworthy attempt to make me jealous. And because I just didn't feel like replying, while I focused harder on my own goals and life.
/r/askTRP29/06/15 04:11 PM
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Looks more malnourished than ripped tbh. Dude needs more muscle.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 06:09 PM
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Some are aware, like this chick a friend at a bar awkwardly tried to introduce me to when I should've taken the reigns. I gave no fucks about this girl so took on amused mastery as I could sense her disinterest before I even spoke. She asked "what's like, your favorite thing to do, I guess is what I'm trying to say" with a condescending tone like talking to a child. I replied "Besides sex?" And she clearly verbally and visibly stammered and got a slight twinge of anger on her forehead. I turned …
/r/askTRP25/06/15 04:50 PM
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Okay "Dude". Again. Me or TRP? You have no idea how I treat anyone. Your cause is noble and how I used to be but guess what, people are going to take advantage of you, sooner or later you will change that. This world hardens you whether you like it or not. Try if you like.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 07:07 PM
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I am part of this community so I am included, and "you're just assholes" is a statement directed at myself and others. Fun fact, top rated comments still doesn't mean they have to be followed. Maybe instead of prejudging go read some of the material; the book of pook which is recommended on here doesn't even advocate negging. Which I'm not even against; if a person's ego or personality is so fragile they can't handle words or teasing, they aren't really good material to begin with. It's all abou…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 05:55 PM
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Personally judging me off the actions of others, classy. TRP is more about self actualization and while there are tenets to the philosophy there are several who deviate. Some advocate leaving women better than they found them. Others are purely carefree and see no harm damaging the emotions of women. People do what works for them. I don't kowtow to or supplicate to women but I show them the same basic level of respect I would a man in the same situation, provided they don't have entitlement or a…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 04:50 PM
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This is akin to people that comment on music videos or songs they don't like. I dont enjoy this but let me stay here and tell you why you're wrong for it.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 04:32 PM
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"This feels too good to me to give up so I can't possibly be doing something wrong. It's different." Hamster = drug addict logic
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 03:44 PM
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Mine at 24. I'm 6'1" so yeah no.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 03:38 PM
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Too much analysis here. Chicks run on Feelz Operating System 98. They use flowery feely ads language, if she thinks you're legitimately beautiful post fuck, it's probably legit.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/15 12:02 AM
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Tale as old as time. Even when I've gone beta I've been forgiven for some salty shit because of my looks. It's kind of a nice guide to dial in your game honestly, provided you give zero fucks about your target and pulling.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 08:56 PM
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Melissa McCarthy movies. hurl. Some of these shitty standards do make it easier to stand out in a sea of mediocrity if you're truly dedicated enough though.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 08:49 PM
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You sir are a fucking boss. I've been thru this before with my original and true oneitis, I held it in for years. I finally told her how I felt or showed her something I wrote up years prior. She was partially touched but I told her I didn't feel the same as then. I backpedaled (this was in BP bliss days where I thought romance won the day) and tried to own my old feelings to "connect" with her. I could practically feel her revulsion build. It escalated into huge arguments as I tried to "convinc…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 02:02 AM
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Would be ideal but I don't think she's sexually interested anymore. She "can't give me what I want"
/r/askTRP16/05/15 02:32 PM
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Oh how I want to do this so bad.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 07:27 PM
1

Appreciate the insight. I do know she had a former fwb she lost her shit over (alpha widow effect?) when he ignored her for two months. I guess he used her for bjs and wouldn't put it in..guy knew his game. That is around the time she started obsessively contacting me and wanting fux. I did not handle appropriately. He recently reentered the picture so I know what's up. Perhaps she has a comfortable lock on him, but I am not going to accept ingratiating beta servitude. Not by a long shot. Gain o…
/r/askTRP15/05/15 07:22 PM
1

Not sure if want. I see no harm in freezing her out til tomorrow afternoon..my head will be much more clear.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 06:14 PM
1

Thanks. I figure almost any response to the comment other than No is not ideal. Such as disqualifying her (told her before when she was still attracted I can't date women heavier than me, I've recently lost more weight) or saying what makes you think I need set up? Which I really don't. I have female friends already and her friendship wouldn't be any more special; less so as they actually hang out and do things with me.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 05:45 PM
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Like a boss. She already asked once two days ago, let it be. The subtext is more important to my choice to reject. I am no longer attracted myself, but I refuse to associate with a female that I got very close to banging who thinks she can do better.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 04:34 PM
1

I don't know. Normally I would probably reorbitze like I always used to but I just don't feel anything for her myself anymore. There's no desire. Not even to fuck really. Sad.
/r/askTRP15/05/15 12:12 AM
2

Solid ass advice. Would be a nice outcome for the 5 months or so I wasted with waning pursuit. It honestly wouldn't bother me plating her. I became red back in October before I met her..just shitty at internalizing a lot of RP.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 11:18 PM
2

Right. Good on you..I'm wondering if you think I have a similar opportunity. The no interest is my response if it comes up again. She liked me enough that I imagine she will attempt to reorbitize me soon. oneitis is a terrible curse, and getting over it usually comes too little too late I find for most guys.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 10:27 PM
1

I'm also going back into monk mode for a while. I need to become better. All attempts I've made don't come to fruition, and sex alone does not satisfy me.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 10:16 PM
1

It was a poor move. My original intent was to show her I got an "endorsement" in the opposite direction what she got. Happened to be about her..oh well. I've pretty much given up on this one. I don't want to fix it.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 10:00 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 08:06 PM
1

It was shitty to show that comment. I tried to deliver it in a vague way but it didn't work. Wasn't out of malice, believe me. But hey, net result is I'm wasting no more time, right?
/r/askTRP14/05/15 07:54 PM
1

Yes, read: oneitis, delusions, etc. I'm also not a man to give up if I see opportunities to hit it, and there were plenty. But I am admittedly amateur. Believe me, removing her from my life is not going to be a problem. I just don't want to close in a BP way.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 07:33 PM
1

I was. If you read any of my previous threads you'll see that. That's not to imply it was simultaneous. I only ever did those when I felt like it or had nothing better to do, however I was the only guy in her life at one point so I tried to exploit that. which led her to send me stuff almost every hour of every day, and we got to sexting and talking about fucking eachother, again I just fucked up pulling it off. After I got her back out again after months of bullshit, I got cockblocked last minu…
/r/askTRP14/05/15 07:23 PM
2

Same here, so much. Student who acts overwhelmed with studying but is rather available to text...aaall the time. In person she is fine and more than comfortable. Unlike you, I haven't fucked this chick so my scenario is much worse. If you don't mind not contacting her just go silent for a bit, she WILL contact you if she wants anything to do with you. Women be slaves to their emotions. Use it.
/r/askTRP01/05/15 11:42 PM
1

She has been acting rather distant since this post, see my tidbit at the end. I revised this post massively, condensed needless details and added anything I thought was important. Reads more like a story now. Enjoy. As for your advice, I don't know if should push again for this weekend. She is a student and her constant excuses before were studying. She has complained about being depressed and told me she only slept 4 hours after our night together, thought she was trying to guilt trip. in some …
/r/askTRP01/05/15 11:30 PM
2

You're right.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 09:28 PM
1

Yeah, I know. I am 100% willing to let her go I just have a lot of time in this chick and don't want to give up when I'm this close. I have other fallbacks now, at least 2-4.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 06:35 PM
1

Logistics as in a clear plan what we're doing and when? Appreciate the moral support. She gave me heavy ass eye contact the entire night and I kissed her solid like four times thru the night to show it wasn't a big deal. She never shut me down and seemed to anticipate it each time. Never turned into makeouts but eh. Got that comfort level back up.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 02:58 PM
1

So, what? Just fuck her? I could. I just don't know if there is a particular right course of action here.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 10:46 AM
1

Socialize with non judgmental people or those who make you feel comfortable to exert your qualities you are self conscious about. You will eventually become desensitized to putting that out there and act equally around all people. alternatively, try some psychedelics. All the pretense disappears.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 11:07 AM
2

"Okay, let's get you some starbucks" aughcough hackspit make it stop. That's about all I needed to read. Never go full beta.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 03:32 PM
2

Haha, now that you mention that and I reread that sentence you're right. I glossed over the wording.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 01:14 AM
2

Not a written rule. I had been on a bluepill first date well before I found trp, got ice cream in a park during a hot summer day. I had been focusing on the convo so much I didn't notice myself dripping ice cream on my pants and shoes. I unintentionally held frame about it instead of durfing and acting embarrassed and she was actually charmed by it. Perfection is not always attractive, and what is attractive is not always a science. Perhaps it just didn't mesh with your frame. You projected prob…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 08:37 PM
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I don't get the logic. They recognize the unattractive qualities of betas that make them not approach so wtf would they want to approach that for unless they were high smv super betas?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 03:21 PM
2

I appreciate this quite a bit not just from a perspective standpoint but also career, as I'm still aspiring to become a firefighter. It was a childhood dream and is a better shot than most of the opportunities in my area short of completely restructuring my life and going to college for x amount of years. I'm not very good with tight spaces and vents in particular used to terrify me but I have no doubt I have the resolve to face it and "embrace the suck". I'm 6'1 and 233lbs, if I got down to 12%…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 03:04 PM
3

Can personally attest to this. See my threads in asktrp how I failed to close when I had smv well above my target. I recently found a picture of her ex. He was short, fat and balding and I'm a solid 2 or 3 points above him in smv but I went too beta.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 11:31 PM
3

Why would you take that as LMR? What would be at her place that would preclude sex? Maybe she was more comfortable with the idea of her place and you blew it.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 03:12 AM
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Imagine finding this after being a virgin for 24 years and finally losing your v card and having a shitty breakup. It makes any and all pain a lot more understandable. I'm some ways it is worse knowing and I hate knowing the nature of women. But I don't begrudge them. Fact is, if you're man enough, emblifying red pill gets easier. On my second ever first date, I felt exactly as you dedcribe, some fucking machine/copy. Like a manlier PUA. Such robotocism will fuck you over for engaging a woman's …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 01:53 PM
1

My body has been unintentionally taking care of it. I've had like three wet dreams in the past month alone. Convenient problem to have, saves me the trouble. Maybe it's not the same as fapping, but I am getting my orgasms. Like I said, I'll try and plunder some bar sluts this weekend. Need to work on my in person game anyway.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 07:25 PM
1

It's not that I disagree as much as it was an unhealthy outlet of use so I'm testing myself. Longest I ever went before was three months. I'm not some nofap reject. I have replaced it with other vices as we all do, and frankly I'd rather find a girl to do the job for me at a bar. I've already started to game other women again, my mistake for thinking Id be spreading myself thin by doing so.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 07:12 PM
1

Yep. I sensed it instinctively but it's better to hear it. Never again.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 04:11 PM
1

I have been for a while, but keep it Coming. This is all shit I need to hear. Only way I'll improve.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 04:06 PM
1

Please be a little more specific. I don't want to come across as butthurt as I'm truthfully not.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 03:33 PM
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Too true. Here's the sad thing..genetically I should've been alpha but years of conditioning and bluepill philosophy dwindled me into a "gentle giant". One of my teachers actually referred to me as that. Make no mistake I'm no Atlas, as I'm at 29% bf right now, somewhere in between built fat and skinny fat, but I'm 6'1, got a 7+inch pingas, good facial symmetry, and full Italian history on both sides. And I have no fear to speak my mind. It's just eliminating beta conditioning and wishy washy la…
/r/askTRP28/01/15 03:28 PM
1

Yeah well I havent been laid in six months and I haven't fapped in two so I'm a little on edge. Good motivator though. How about you highlight the insanity so I can work on it please. That's the whole point of TRP.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 03:14 PM
1

Yeah. pretty much. I disagreed and amplified quite literally, saying "call me when I get out of swim class and I will ennumerate the many things we have in common". Basically calling her bluff. Which we do, but isn't necessary. I don't think a woman really cares if her alpha fux interests line up with her own. The entire intent was to get her on the phone and be congruent again and a&a our "commonalities". "We both want to put each others faces in places they don't belong". But you're right. I'm…
/r/askTRP28/01/15 02:33 PM
1

Had an instance where a girl tried to pull a withdrawn game on me for reasons still unknown; I asked her what she was up to, she goes "Nothing", I.e. one word answer paradise. So I play it off, "Oh great, that's perfect since I'm taking you out today". Instead of O WATS WRONG like some clueless fool would do. Cue hamster explosion of what she actually was doing and why she couldn't go out today and profuse apologies. Hilarious. Never try to understand the hamster, deflect and tease it, nothing e…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 05:42 AM
2

Thank you for this. I've been reading trp myself for three months and have been talking the talk but walking the walk is much more a test of a man's character. See my thread in asktrp to see how I failed to advance even though I knew better. In my personal dealings I can spit trp theory to you like a boss and it makes deep sense to me on a personal level. But like anything in life metamorphosis must take place in more than just the mind, and a man must become congruent in all areas.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 02:07 PM
7

You and me baby ain't nothin but mammals
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 07:26 PM
1

Appreciate the insight. I felt it on an instinctual level; especially since my ex berated me for not being aggressive enough (before I discovered trp) I'm even more motivated to not be passive. I KNOW I need to take the lead. Its all about manning up.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 10:36 PM
2

Lol..straight to the point but you're right.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 09:50 PM
2

I do kind of feel like my first kiss kinda sucked but the first girl I did with had long, long makeout sessions with me, and it was the lack of push back from her that made me feel like I failed to deliver at first. The other two were solid. 2 seems most likely. She claims to have a "best guy friend" who she spends a lot of time with, but she has no commitment from. She complained to me on NYE about all his female friends looking better than her which I dismissed. What I think is plausible is in…
/r/askTRP19/01/15 08:43 PM
1

I agree even though I am a beginner. I was going to include those elements in my post as a highlightable tool. They are as much a foundation as game is. I don't necessarily agree you should focus exclusively on one or the other though I am an advocate for MGTOW if you are a repulsive beta male in need of serious renovation. I have 2-5 already in check, with some possible need for improvement on 2. If you are reasonably attractive though there's no reason to turn yourself into an AFC by not learn…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 06:17 PM
2

I haven't picked up an RP book yet, it's on my list of things to do. I'll add this. Appreciate the recommendation
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 04:57 PM
1

I really don't understand why I used to do this, downplay myself. I almost cringe thinking back on it. Nowadays I either don't acknowledge it, say a simple Thanks, or like you said, tease about it.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 02:30 PM
1

The good thing is honestly I give no fucks most of the time. I found through trp I had a rp mindset and attitude when I was young but social conditioning and beliefs in ppoliteness softened me considerably. I'm going to attempt to k and f close on the next date, I did with the last girl. Anxiety isn't as much an issue as a desire for good execution. Either way, I want to get her hooked to the point where I cant fall in the friend zone trap
/r/askTRP05/01/15 09:08 PM
4

Nearly raped you? She clearly was just expressing her sexuality you misogynistic selfish shitlord patriarchy surfer. If anything you nearly raped her by having such easy access to your penis. In all seriousness, decent FR.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 10:43 PM
9

Chances Moata used to be a man?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 03:33 PM
3

I'd up vote to infinity if I could for Allahu Akbar
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 03:26 PM
9

Diet Redpill. Even the SJWs will drink it if you cover it up with their PC lingo and "hatefree" speech. This is how we stay covert, gentlemen.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/14 03:32 PM
2

Sad. What a waste, and they remain woefully ignorant they're their own worst enemy.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 12:43 AM
1

"Lol I want to ignore the scientific evidence that shows music increases workout performance because I'm too alpha and masculine for that pansy baby music stuff. Matter of fact, I workout with no clothes and no shoes on either, and I also use rocks instead of bars and plates. ALPHA CAVEMAN STYLE BRO"
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 05:58 PM
2

Can confirm. My ex kept showing me images of quotes and shit she wanted on the back of her neck. Some lyrics from a Bon Iver song. Something like "Patient. Kind. Balanced. Fine." from top to bottom. I made some reference to it at some point when she was being petulant and asked her don't you consider yourself patient? Basically goes nope not at all and I ask well what's the deal with the tattoo idea then? I thought it was supposed to symbolise how she'd like to be or views herself. "I just like …
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 05:18 PM
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Guys, these girls had my penis in their mouths several times throighout the night and held it there til I came and they swallowed. What does this mean?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 01:26 AM
-1

"Why dont you ever give me a straight answer?" "Good question." Smirk for effect. "Wow, you're cocky." "You're goddamn right I am." "Do you think I'm a slut?" "Let's find out. Take your pants off."
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 01:46 AM
3

Le gasp! A male who won't completely fawn over my appearance and treat the ground I walk on as if it were gold! Patriarchy!
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 10:18 PM
2

I'll put all but 4cm in so it doesnt count as sex to save their fragile consciences. would probably hit, she's about a 7 or 8 depending on your taste for curry.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 11:58 PM
16

There's an Indian couple that frequents the gym I go to. More than a few times, I caught his Indian princess of the carousel eyeing me. It clearly made him uncomfortable. To be fair, dude is relatively short 5' 7" maybe, and looks like MagicofRahat with glasses. But still, SMV and hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 05:32 PM
0

Wow..just wow. Hey, at least you used her for about all she's good for. Definitely not the brains.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/14 02:12 AM
2

Thank god I was born a sociopath. In seriousness, I've noticed myself exhibiting, or rather not exhibiting what you speak of. Social interactions for me are always bizarre because I'm like a people watcher but at point blank. I'll be watching your mannerisms, behavior, body language, etc as Im interacting with you. Its not something I consciously do, just always have. Im inherently unemotional and got called out on it by my ex. Warning: semi-rant/exposition, skip to bottom to avoid. "I don't lik…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 02:20 AM
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