At what point do you draw the line on soft nexting? Does it depend on the offense or is it as simple as disrepect; soft next.

I ask because I'm dealing with an old plate who was a chronic excuse maker but recently had been chasing me since I dropped all interest and improved myself (gym, employment, etc). She took me for beta and after trying to use me for emotional comfort I outright set boundaries two Fridays ago. She came back within two days with nary a sobstory; but, I feel as though she thought she could "have me" at any time with a text or a picture. I decided to prove her wrong.

She left me hanging this past monday and tuesday night after "coming back". I didn't give a fuck, but I know her and her behavior. The next day I figured, she'd think I'd orbit and send something to get her attention back like the old me would've. Nope. When I didn't fall into this, she sent a picture around 4pm, much later usual. Ignored the rest of the day. Next day, thursday. Blip at 10 am. Didn't care, didn't open. Ten minutes later, blip. Same thing.

Went back to doing my thing, got a job offer that same day, felt like a king, played music with my band. 8pm. Blip. Stiiill don't care. I decided to discontinue contact thru the weekend. It's Monday now and she hasn't tried since Thursday. I'm thinking of looking after this afternoon to see what she sent and determine my response, but did I soft next too hard?